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Originally Posted by khalifa
Yeah I agree my question was provoking and I should have worded it different. But is that already enough to just delete. Why not just tell me that it's poorly worded? Is there a new rule I don't know about that says we do not tolerate negativity in any form nor heated discussions? What would have been so bad if this discussion would have led to a HU4ROLLZ? I seem to remember that they are usually quite popular in our forum.
I agree my question wasn't great and certainly wasn't very valuable if at all, but deleting it was wasn't appropriate either imo.
Sure, I can understand where you're coming from. I'm not here to defend or criticize this particular deletion, as I don't mod that forum and thus don't know what the usual tone and expectations of the regs thread are. But what I will say in general terms is that sometimes mods just quietly delete a post or posts that they feel are likely to cause a problem. I say "quietly" not to mean it's being intentionally done in a secretive fashion (although that is sort of the result), but that it's done without posting and making a big deal about it or without starting a long PM exchange about what they see as a routine deletion. Some posters don't notice, I'm sure, some do but don't care, and some are upset that their post was deleted. Moderating is a volunteer job, so it's not reasonable to expect that moderators are always going to discuss every deletion with posters, and they might even take the easy way out and delete a borderline post or two rather than have to deal with what they fear will the subsequent fallout of the post(s). But again, I'm speaking in very general terms here - I think ChRy had more specific reasons for this deletion:
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Originally Posted by ChicagoRy
I didn't think it was appropriate to basically bash a staking stable so generally.
FWIW, I run a different stable myself and have no involvement in the stable you were criticizing, but I just felt your comment was unnecessarily negative and would only lead towards negativity.
While you may not agree with his reasoning, I don't think he's coming from a bad place here. It sounds to me like he did what
he thought was best for the forum, which is what I think we all hope moderators will do.
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Originally Posted by khalifa
I couldn't care less about that really. And if it comes from ChicagoRy's mouth it is kinda comical since he is the owner of a poker coaching site not me. What is tapping the glass more? Me telling someone you're weak or someone helping this weak player and actually masses of weak or average players to get better?
Same applies to the strat forums as well. They have a way bigger effect in educating the masses about poker than me telling a stable have look at your weak horses.
No, it's definitely not coming from ChRy - that was just another possible reason I came up with. But I will just say that I may not have worded that in the best way. It's not so much a matter of educating players as it is of not calling out particular players or groups of players for their bad play. Some of our forums discourage that for the lack of respect it shows for others as well. Yes, I know that probably sounds funny with the trolling that often goes on in a lot of threads, but some forums do try to keep that more under control than others do.
Moving forward, I'd suggest you just leave this behind you. I think both your and ChRy's positions are understandable, and you may have both learned something from it. But that's up to you of course. If you actually want the decision overturned, that's something only the original moderator or Mat Sklansky would do - and Mat doesn't do that often.
One reason ATF is here is so posters can start threads like this and discuss their concerns; hopefully this thread has served its purpose for you in that regard.