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Originally Posted by suitedjustice
Live poker is also very much a people game. Just out of curiosity, op, how skilled are you at interpreting social cues from others?
I'd have to say, honestly, very very good. I've read several books on body language and limbic reactions. I rarely speak or break my train of thought at the table.
I'll give you a secret: after you've sat at the table for a while and everybody gets settled in and is more relaxed, notice their hands. It's the cluster of reactions from their shoulder, all the way down to the fingers. You can very clearly see who will fold preflop in advance. So when you have A5s in MP, with five players behind you at a full-ring cash game, you see that three people are clearly folding behind, so you now have A5s with only two people behind you. It happens a great deal of the time. You might have to hesitate sometimes to draw the reaction, though.
That's just one thing though. There's much more. I'm hawking you the whole time. When you aren't looking at me, I'm looking at you. I'm watching who is watching me at all times. I have excellent peripherals for a man. I feel like minors edges such as this are what adds up to greater understanding of predicting action.
I'm a silently-rude person at the table. I have headphones in with no music(25% of the time there is music), just so people don't even try to talk to me. I barely speak and don't ever show my hand. I muck straight-flushes and quads all day long. I have no emotional attachment to money or remorse for making you go broke. This is part of the game to me. I aim to be inhumanely ruthless at the table.
Also, like I posted last night, I've had about thirty jobs. I have moved about twenty times. I know how to adapt to people and places. When I'm interviewed for a job, the interviewer is usually way more nervous than me, and this puts me in control of the interview. I'm pretty good at meeting women too. Assessing whether or not they want to engage in a sexual relationship is pretty easy. Some girls, I swear, will not stop staring at me when I'm not looking. I know they are looking, so I have to walk around or act like I'm occupied with something else, or I will catch her staring. This happens all the time. It's awkward when you catch her too. Especially when you catch her staring multiple times. They are looking when you are not looking. When your body is pointed in a direction that makes it hard for your head to turn fast enough to catch her staring, is when she is staring. And she doesn't have to turn her head as much to stare, because women genetically have wider peripherals. On the other hand, men generally don't have wide peripherals and have to turn their entire head to look or stare.
I am really into body language. Interesting stuff.