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Originally Posted by SuperUberBob
How many of those who have Trump-supporting parents have had your relationship with them weakened as a result of this election? If you have, to what extent?
Not sure how I feel about my mother supporting a President aware that he will sign a health care bill that will result in the loss of healthcare for one of my siblings and a lost opportunity for me should I go back to America.
I would fit this description. It hasn't caused open animosity, but certainly I consider it "weakened," because I basically put a wall up to avoid conflict and it makes the relationship shallower than it used to be. I think the only reason it hasn't caused open animosity is because I basically do gymnastics to avoid discussing political issues with them anymore. When I go home for Christmas they have right-wing poison blaring all day, either on radio or TV, and I just sequester myself in another room and put headphones in.
I don't live near them anymore, they're obviously entering their final decades, and if you set aside our fierce disagreement on politics then there would be no problems between us, as they are otherwise very kind people who I love and get along with just fine. My mom is slightly more reasonable than my dad, and I think if it was just her I would make an attempt to engage in conversation to try to talk her out of this madness, but when it's both of them there's just no point; nothing is going to change. That's why I just try to avoid the topic. There was one tense exchange last year after I got a few glasses of wine into dinner, but otherwise I'm pretty disciplined about staying away from it.