Quote:
Originally Posted by Lestat
...
You could be right. I grew up in a neighborhood where it was not just okay to bash gays, make sexist and ethnic jokes, but it was thought to be cool to do so. I was late in coming around. But the more I learned about actual real world issues, the more wrong I saw it was, so I tend to give people who seem to have redeemable qualities a break. Obviously, equality isn't going as nearly as fast as it should be. But it was at least trending in the right direction. Now I fear it is going backwards. That could be my fault for not coming around quick enough when I was a kid or having better role models so I could've turned more people around myself when I was younger and maybe we wouldn't have Trump today. Although I will say most Trump voters that I know are quite a bit older than me.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lestat
I don't see how. I'm at least willing to talk with people I disagree with before calling them names. Once they show themselves to be hopeless (like if someone still bashes gays after I've given my best effort to explain that being gay is not a choice and homosexuality exists throughout the animal kingdom), then I'll resort to your tactics because they're just *******s and aren't going to change no matter what.
Well, I'm not actually blaming you, I'm just pointing out the fallacy of blaming us for causing trump. It just doesn't square with reality. I don't have any friends or family who are republicans much less trumpers. The closest thing is one of my homeboys who is a blue dog dem, but he's a black dude from the south side of Chicago who is friends with a bunch of leftists, so that dog can really only get so blue.
The point is, I didn't have a racist uncle I could try to convince, or a knuckleheaded friend, or any such thing. But plenty of people do and did. And they treated it like kiddie game stakes. The wacky racist uncle who voted for W and said O was a secret jihadist Muslim from Keyna doesn't seem so benign anymore, right? The friend who you knew was kinda sorta racist but your decision to ignore it and have some beers and talk about sports seems like a mistake now, right?
Maybe I can blame Jon Stewart?
It's like, a person's politics don't need to be radically left to see that whole Smart Guy Centrism nonsense is just that, nonsense.