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Another tragic death of a transgender teen, should the parents be charged? Another tragic death of a transgender teen, should the parents be charged?

01-02-2015 , 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by NMcNasty
You don't need a constitutional amendment, every state has laws against child abuse which I'm fairly certain includes psychological abuse.

The tricky part is separating criminal non-physical abusive parenting from merely bad parenting in court.
How many kids will throw themselves in front of traffic if their parents don't buy them a new Xbox?

The line may be hard to draw, but it doesn't seem hard to figure out in this case.
01-02-2015 , 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by NMcNasty
I don't think the parents should be charged. There's a chance they're loving parents who legitimately feared for their child's immortal soul due to his or her sexual orientation. This is what people actually believe. If you charge the parents you have to charge the church as well.

The "conversion therapy" practice should be banned. At first I was thinking it should be legal in the same way that astrology should be legal, but there comes a point where its just too damaging and you have to draw the line. Have a disclaimer saying "Not endorsed by any medical organization and may cause severe depression and suicide"? What's the point.
Sincerely believing abuse is in the best interest of your child isnt a defense. See, Adrian Peterson.
01-02-2015 , 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Anais
How many kids will throw themselves in front of traffic if their parents don't buy them a new Xbox?
How many kids kill themselves in part due to emotional neglect but not psychological abuse by their parents? Thousands.
01-02-2015 , 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Anais
Question for the "it's not child abuse" crowd:

Would a gay couple forcing their straight kid to go to conversion therapy to become gay be considered child abuse?
1. Interested to see the answer to this.

2. If deaf parents forced their child (who could hear) not to talk and only ever to use sign language. Would that be child abuse?

3. Imagine a scenario similar to below, except without the physical abuse. I.e. African immigrants believe child is possessed by demon, send child to traditional healer/exorcist who doesn't touch the child but tells them they are the devil until the commit suicide... Abuse?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...l-beliefs.html

For all of the above, why/why not?
01-02-2015 , 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Anais
Question for the "it's not child abuse" crowd:

Would a gay couple forcing their straight kid to go to conversion therapy to become gay be considered child abuse?
Reality is many of us see things as Child Abuse which others do not. I think smoking in a car with a child is child abuse. Letting your child becoming obese is child abuse in my opinion.

Problem here is Religion. Religion kills more people than any disease out there. They were Christians to bad they never asked the question WWJD

No one will be charged and chalk up another death to Religion.
01-02-2015 , 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted by problemeliminator
Sincerely believing abuse is in the best interest of your child isnt a defense. See, Adrian Peterson.
My position isn't that it isn't abuse, merely that its not a level/form of abuse that can proven to be criminal in court at the moment.
01-02-2015 , 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Dids
Because trying to shape your child to fit your narrow ass world view isn't a valid parenting choice.
It's only your opinion that it's a narrow ass view and only your opinion it's not a valid parenting choice. If you ever have children I assume you will let other people dictate how you should raise your child? What if I view your world view as corrupt and harmful? Can I tell you how to raise your kid?

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Originally Posted by problemeliminator
Sincerely believing abuse is in the best interest of your child isnt a defense. See, Adrian Peterson.
He clearly broke a law, hence the arrest.

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Originally Posted by NMcNasty
How many kids kill themselves in part due to emotional neglect but not psychological abuse by their parents? Thousands.
This is so true. Especially in this case - does the kid still jump in front of a truck if the parents say nothing and then emotionally neglect them?

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Originally Posted by Anais
Question for the "it's not child abuse" crowd:

Would a gay couple forcing their straight kid to go to conversion therapy to become gay be considered child abuse?
ICWUDT - If that's how they want to raise their child then so be it. It's a parental decision. Good effort on the conservative talking point though.

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Originally Posted by chezlaw
Not sure what you mean. Are you okay with legal requirements on parents to get their children suitably educated and vaccinated. Which means doing so even if their religion or personal beliefs are at odds with the state?

If so then why can't we extend that to other responsibilities on parents? Then we can argue in the usual way about what those legal responsibilities should cover but it's not some matter of principle.
Yes - that doesn't mean I don't support the parents right to make a decision in what they view is in the best interest in their child.

We can certainly do that although I don't think the state should extend that to beliefs you should teach your child.
01-02-2015 , 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted by lozen
Reality is many of us see things as Child Abuse which others do not. I think smoking in a car with a child is child abuse. Letting your child becoming obese is child abuse in my opinion.
Many countries make the former illegal and treat the latter as abuse which can lead to taking children in to care.
01-02-2015 , 05:48 PM
I've just skimmed the last part of the discussion and would like to add this:

It'd prob be very hard to squeeze what happened into any of the child abuse boxes in the criminal code and any elected DA that tried it would be committing political suicide. The best that can come of this is that the gay rights groups run w/ it and try to get a 'Leelah's law' passed that we can get behind and end this revolting conversion 'therapy' nonsense.
01-02-2015 , 06:10 PM
Classic case of lol religion
01-02-2015 , 06:19 PM
Not enough sympathy ITT for parents who have lost their son.
01-02-2015 , 06:23 PM
Parents force kids to do things they don't want all the time.

You just wait it out until your 18th birthday and you move on.

There was no physical abuse or physical pain, just being forced to listen to some views you didn't agree with.

Suicide is the choice of the person who decides to do it.

Based on the suicide note, this was an activist that wanted to make a statement with suicide.

Instead of waiting a few months to become 18 and leave.

I'm not impressed with a rush to martyrdom for a cause.

The blame for the death is with the person who chose to create a death, the 17 year old suicide.
01-02-2015 , 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by AsianNit
Not enough sympathy ITT for parents who have lost their daughter.
fixed that for you
01-02-2015 , 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted by champstark
fixed that for you
01-02-2015 , 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted by abseeker
Parents force kids to do things they don't want all the time.

You just wait it out until your 18th birthday and you move on.

There was no physical abuse or physical pain, just being forced to listen to some views you didn't agree with.

Suicide is the choice of the person who decides to do it.

Based on the suicide note, this was an activist that wanted to make a statement with suicide.

Instead of waiting a few months to become 18 and leave.

I'm not impressed with a rush to martyrdom for a cause.

The blame for the death is with the person who chose to create a death, the 17 year old suicide.
Abuse is only physical pain?
01-02-2015 , 07:04 PM
Unless they were physically abusing her as well. If that's the case, then no. He'll find other reasons to diminish this tragic loss of life
01-02-2015 , 08:40 PM
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Originally Posted by rugby
1. Interested to see the answer to this. (if gay parents made their straight child go to gay conversion therapy and condemned them to the point or suicide, is it abuse)

2. If deaf parents forced their child (who could hear) not to talk and only ever to use sign language. Would that be child abuse?

3. Imagine a scenario similar to below, except without the physical abuse. I.e. African immigrants believe child is possessed by demon, send child to traditional healer/exorcist who doesn't touch the child but tells them they are the devil until the commit suicide... Abuse?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...l-beliefs.html

For all of the above, why/why not?
Bump for stockguy and abseeker
01-02-2015 , 08:45 PM
My position is pretty clear - parents should be allowed to raise their children how they see fit so not sure why I'm answering these questions
01-02-2015 , 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by stockguy3205
It's only your opinion that it's a narrow ass view and only your opinion it's not a valid parenting choice. If you ever have children I assume you will let other people dictate how you should raise your child? What if I view your world view as corrupt and harmful? Can I tell you how to raise your kid?
C'mon DIDS answer the question - can I tell you how to raise your kids?
01-02-2015 , 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by stockguy3205
My position is pretty clear - parents should be allowed to raise their children how they see fit so not sure why I'm answering these questions
Because your position isn't clear.

You agree the state can get involved in raising children in many circumstances and then pretend you are taking a principled line supporting parental rights, except that position amounts to "hell, parents can do whatever they want to kids so long as they don't **** them or throw tiles at them."

your argument taken to a logical conclusion would force you to support positions I don't think you actually support... Hence the questions. Which shouldn't be difficult if your position is so clear cut
01-02-2015 , 08:55 PM
Also, for 2. Some deaf parents want to surgically deafen their hearing children... Abuse?
01-02-2015 , 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted by AsianNit
Not enough sympathy ITT for parents who have lost their son.
01-03-2015 , 01:51 AM
http://us.cnn.com/2014/12/31/us/ohio...iref=obnetwork


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"We don't support that, religiously," Alcorn's mother told CNN on Wednesday, her voice breaking. "But we told him that we loved him unconditionally. We loved him no matter what. I loved my son. People need to know that I loved him. He was a good kid, a good boy."

hot damn

Last edited by 5ive; 01-03-2015 at 01:56 AM.
01-03-2015 , 06:20 AM
Parents should absolutely be charged.
01-03-2015 , 06:30 AM
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Originally Posted by schu_22
Parents should absolutely be charged.
yup.

Stockguy and Wil, just lol.

      
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