Why do you think that? Also, pics?

awesome movie

kil, cmon man...you have to show pictures after that statement. also, gj on beating that french pro...i think you've found your calling...

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went on a climbing trip this past weekend in south dakota. will post TR/pictures when i get them.

sweet, badlands?

give us the pics already **** skae

Well compared to the first couple months, she's gotten a lot more distant with phone calls etc

Every day she doesn't have a job she goes out with friends, which is Ok. And I'm pretty sure all her friends are female

I ask who she goes out with, she says "an old friend" I ask if its a guy/girl, she auto-responds with girl...
Also pretty sure it's not a guy because she often posts pictures of her and her friend on facebook the same day/next day

I asked today if it was a girl she dated before, she kind of laughed, hesitated and said no...
When she goes out with her "old friends", it's always one-on-one, not a group...
And when I call her when she's with mutual friends/her sister, she will answer the phone from me 100%, but when she's with "old friends", she doesn't answer the phone until her friend goes home.
I ask what they do, she just says "We talked for a while"
And they will meet for like 7-10 hours at a time

I ask for a three-some with another girl she doesn't auto-reject, or laugh, like you would expect. It's something like "well it's kinda awkward, so I dont know..." type of responses.
When I first met her she wanted to have sex like 3 times a day, now it's like.. once, and even then I have to get her into the mood
She also mentioned only girls can get her off

Maybe I'm thinking too much?

IF she is cheating on me with a girl, what's my response? What if it's just a physical relationship, is that enough to end our relationship? When we first started dating I did tell her that I would be Ok with her sleeping with other girls.
And yes a three-some is a given, I mean besides that

All I can say is (and this is speaking from experience)

let things happen normally. Don't try to force it (heh).


Can't fight The Great Magnet.

nah, palisades in south dakota. pretty small park all around, but pretty good climbing. friend has all the pictures, so hopefully i'll have them soon.

kil, seems more likely that she's cheating on you with another GUY, not girl...no?

possibly, but I don't think so

Every time she doesn't have work, or meets me, she almost always posts pictures of her with her friend

I mean, it's possible, but doubtful

Her ex-boyfriend also went overseas so that brings that possibility lower

I mean, it's still possible I suppose.

Im also confident in my skill in the sack

I've read like 4 books on it, have 10 years of experience... and no joking I think people that are really good at videogames are also really good at sex

lol at that last statement.

Most people that are really good at videogames are virgins. Ever seen those wow/dota pros? The US/Euro ones.

that's because girls are inferior to WoW characters

So wait the girl who cheated on her bf with kil is now cheating on him? I'M SHOCKED

+1

you should be, because Kil is the "best in the sack"

He must be. He read 4 books on it

Zing.

You guys are a bunch of dicks.

I thought I could turn for help on my love-life on this anonymous low-stakes gambling forum, but you guys let me down....


And I was talking more games that take skill/hand-eye coordination
I bet you the top FPS players are great at sex, if they ever do it

And those 4 books were thick, real thick. like. 1.5 inches thick.

If you need to rely on your great hand-eye coordination then you are probably not good "in the sack."



And...

...too easy?

hi n4rf

I think that people who know how to get good at one thing generally know how to get good at other things. Yes, video games are one of those things. Poker too. Poker particularly. It's just that the latter two also attract people who haven't figured out yet that they have no social skills.

Also, disappointed in lack of pictures from all involved.

Kil,

As someone mentioned above, you can't really force certain things to happen in your love-life. If this girl is cheating on you it's not necessarily something you did or didn't do but very possibly a character trait of hers. It's possible that she's not at a point in her life where she's capable of staying with one person (man or woman) for more than a short amount of time. I think this is reflected in the manner in which you got together and is possibly occurring now if indeed she's cheating on you. If this is the case then there's not really anything you can or should do. Trying to control her or change your own behavior isn't going to convince her to stay with you if her youth/immaturity is telling her to move on.

That all said, you don't really have a ton to go on to prove that she's being unfaithful to you. Just relax and enjoy her company and let whatever happens happen imo. Continue to be yourself (fun, relaxed, a good time to be around) and things will take their course for better or worse. In the meantime all you can do is live your life.

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Hope that helped at all.