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11-09-2011 , 10:26 AM
how the **** did you know
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11-09-2011 , 10:51 AM
missing variable in your post,,,
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11-09-2011 , 11:44 AM
I'm in tears after reading about MFN's "least productive" day

I was like, "who mentioned porn?", and then realised how brilliant the post was, lol.
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11-10-2011 , 12:55 AM
I really enjoyed taking tid bits of every inspirational and mentally engaging quote on here. So little is there talk about the mental aspect of poker... many people can possess the technalities and odds. But when do players engage in mental conditioning? Thanks for bringing this up; it really changes the shift and aspect of poker for the good!
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11-10-2011 , 08:16 AM
galfond replying to db

pure gold
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11-10-2011 , 03:38 PM
Confirmed gold
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11-10-2011 , 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by napsus
Very good read. Thanks PG, and Napsus for sharing!
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11-10-2011 , 04:47 PM
Did someone say porn?

e: ^^very good

Last edited by SlimyF; 11-10-2011 at 04:54 PM.
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11-10-2011 , 05:12 PM
What is galfond responding to?
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11-10-2011 , 05:23 PM
Doorbread's situation. Check out the thread in HSPLO, it's really good.
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11-15-2011 , 04:51 PM
funny how much more confident plo player i have lately become just by realizing how many leaks and shortcomings i have in this game.
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11-16-2011 , 03:44 AM
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Originally Posted by napsus
funny how much more confident plo player i have lately become just by realizing how many leaks and shortcomings i have in this game.
I think as PLO players in general we tend to analyze our games more just for the sheer fact we go thru more swings/variance than those at holdem. Because of this it keeps us on our toes and helps us become better players as we begin to find leaks in our games which in turn we find those same leaks in our opponents which we now can exploit.

It definitely is a great feeling finding something wrong with the way you think or are playing. My confidence always goes thru the roof after session reviews, best thing ever.

Confidence is key esp in PLO.
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11-16-2011 , 08:34 AM
Since I love quoting myself, I'll just say: "the essence of tilt is insecurity". Confident players rarely tilt, since they usually know whether the play they made was optimal. Poker is all about optimal play, the rest is just variance.
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11-16-2011 , 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted by GoGetaRealJob
Since I love quoting myself, I'll just say: "the essence of tilt is insecurity". Confident players rarely tilt, since they usually know whether the play they made was optimal. Poker is all about optimal play, the rest is just variance.
yes sir, couldn't agree more!
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11-24-2011 , 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted by JesusEatsCheese
just starting to try and learn PLO and the variance is already scaring the **** out of me

a bit cheesy but ive always loved this quote by Modest Mouse (from the song "float") and think it ties in well with a poker mindset

love that song....back into a cop car the other day, but he just drove on by, sometimes lifes ok.
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12-04-2011 , 07:44 AM
"If everyone else is such an idiot, how come you aren't rich?"

http://www.businessinsider.com/if-re...#ixzz1fWeLrprV

(took this from Taylor Caby's twitter, you should follow him if you have a young entrepreunial mind, great tweeter and very driven guy)
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12-05-2011 , 04:05 PM
Lao Tzu quotes:

A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.

All difficult things have their origin in that which is easy, and great things in that which is small.

An ant on the move does more than a dozing ox

At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.

Be Content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.

Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.

He who conquers others is strong; He who conquers himself is mighty.

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.

Nature is not human hearted.

The words of truth are always paradoxical

To see things in the seed, that is genius.

To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders.

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.

my favourite tao quotes:

1- He who knows does not speak, he who speaks does not know
2- Muddy water when settled becomes clear
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12-05-2011 , 05:36 PM
^ solid, one of my fav authors
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12-09-2011 , 11:05 AM
have you guys tried searching your "optimal creative/efficient window", meaning the time of the day when you are most effective (poker wise, for you who play for living)?

this is obv a problem for anyone who works 9to5 since changes are that the creative window is not in that time period. I'm all for the idea that there should not be any mandatory working hours but that everyone could do they jobs whenever they want, as long as they do it. obv this is ideal, but would be quite cool. don't know how i would change my working hours, except that i would work less hours since i work very effectively when i actually do work.

i think for me the optimal efficient window is from about 7pm to 12pm (with breaks obv),. i'm a complete zombie in the mornings but force myself to be effective those times as well. anytime i try to play poker in the morning, it usually ends up in a cluster **** where i lose a many BIs and feel ****ty for the rest of the day.

now the trouble with current situation is that i use a lot of energy being efficient when it's not my optimal efficient window, and when it the window actually starts i don't have the energy to execute.

thoughts on this concept, whether or not you have found your optimal time window for grinding/other stuff? or do you think this is jibberish?
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12-09-2011 , 01:03 PM
chi/jing/flow

higher when awake
higher as time passes from last orgasm

relates to metabolism, exercise increases, sleep increases, food increases, hydration increases, caffeine increases, coke increases, meditation increases, desire increases,

most of these are in your control,

body clock hormones decrease/increase it, but we all know the window is not before sleep or after waking, window is after food exercise and water. Window weakens after stress or lots of brain use.
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12-09-2011 , 02:16 PM
if you schedule a grind say 6pm to 9pm

also schedule a preparation at 5.45pm-6pm

which is getting a glass of water, making sure there is some nuts or some chocolate or something, tidying work area, meditating, some light excercies to get blood flowing, affirmation of A game.... ect

helps alot
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12-09-2011 , 02:22 PM
very true...my pre-game routine is to write down my c-game characteristics, how to avoid and my long-term goals. puts me on the right mindset
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12-11-2011 , 07:10 PM
ima try apply this one to see if i can reduce my stress at work and at poker as well

the article is the standard rosy and glory story but i think there is some truth in this one as long as you read this (and all the others i've posted) critically.

Quote:
100 Days with No Goals
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Joshua Fields Millburn of The Minimalists.

I have lived the last 100 days with no goals. And I have never been happier or more content in my life.

When I met Leo four months ago — two-thousand miles from my home in Dayton, Ohio — he said there were three things that significantly changed his life: establishing habits he enjoyed, simplifying his life, and living with no goals.

I was already living the first two: I had established my pleasurable habits, I had simplified my life. But it was difficult for me to grasp the “no goals” thing. The thought of living a life with no goals sounded insane to me — it was counterintuitive, it was scary, it went against almost everything I had ever learned about productivity.

In my corporate life of yesteryear, I managed hundreds of people for a large corporation, an organization in which I was often considered the productivity guy, the goal guy: I met deadlines, overproduced, exceeded expectations, got results. That’s why they paid me the big bucks.

I regularly had umpteen goals in various stages of completion: short-term goals, long-term goals, personal goals, business goals, health goals, financial goals, vacation goals, consumer-purchasing goals, you name it. I thought if I crossed enough goals off my to-do list, I’d eventually be content. So I worked harder and harder, focusing on every new goal with lapidary precision.

But I was stressed out of my mind with all those goals. My hauntingly perpetual to-do list was just that — perpetual, never-ending. And it was ever-growing. Plus, I was continuously disappointed when I didn’t achieve a goal, or when I missed a deadline. Hell, I was even disappointed when I attained a goal but didn’t overachieve. It was a self-consuming cocaine high — it was never enough.

I needed a way to quit my goals cold turkey, so I did two things after speaking with Leo.

First, I asked myself, “why do I have these goals?” I had goals so I could tell if I was “accomplishing” what I was “supposed” to accomplish. If I met a goal, I was allowed to be happy — right? Then I thought: Wait a minute, why must I achieve a specific result towards an arbitrary goal to be happy? Why don’t I just allow myself to be happy now?

Second, I decided to live with no goals for a while. I didn’t know how long, because I didn’t make it a goal. I figured I’d give it a shot for a month or so, maybe longer, to see what happened. If it affected me negatively, I could return to my rigid life of “achieving” and “producing results” with my color-coded spreadsheets containing scads of goals.

What happened? Breaking free from goals changed my life.

Three Ways Living with No Goals Changed My Life

1. I am less stressed. I have virtually no stress now. Sure, there are brief moments in which I feel vexed or bothered — but I feel so much less stress these days. People I’ve known for years comment on how calm I am. With no goals, they say I’m a different person — a better person.

2. I am more productive. I didn’t anticipate this one. I thought getting rid of goals meant I was going to sacrifice results and productivity. But the opposite has been true. I tossed productivity and became more productive. I’ve written the best fiction of my life, I’ve watched our website’s readership increase significantly, I’ve met remarkable new people, and I’ve been able to contribute to other people like never before. The last 100 days have been the most productive days of my life.

3. I am happier and more content. During my 30 years on this earth, I’ve never been this consistently happy or content. It is an incredible feeling, even surreal at times. With the decreased stress and increased productivity resulting from no goals, I am able to enjoy my life, I am able to live in the moment. And thus I am appreciably happier and more content.

Three Misconceptions About No Goals

Three arguments against the no-goal lifestyle presented themselves to me in the last 100 days, all three of which I’d like to address.

1. Complacency: Doesn’t a life with no goals make you complacent? Well, if by “complacent” you mean “content,” then yes. But, otherwise, no it didn’t make me complacent. In fact, the opposite was true: after removing the stress from my life, I partook in new, exciting endeavors, while living a passionate, meaningful life.

2. Growth: Doesn’t a life with no goals prevent you from growing? No. I’ve grown considerably in the last 100 days. I’ve gotten into the best shape of my life, strengthened my personal relationships, established new relationships, and written more than ever before. I’ve grown more in the last 100 days than any other 100-day period in my life.

3. You still have goals: You say you have no goals, but don’t you still have some goals, like finishing your new novel or “being happy” or “living in the moment”? It’s important to make a distinction here: yes, I want to “be happy” and “live in the moment” and “live a healthy life,” but these are choices, not goals. I choose to be happy. I choose to live in the moment. I choose to live a healthy life. I don’t need to measure these events, I simply live this way. As for my new novel, I intend to finish writing it — I’ve never worked harder on anything in my life — but I’m enjoying the process of writing it, and if I never finish, that’s okay too. I’m not stressed about it anymore.

Living with no goals has changed my life. It has added layers of happiness and contentment I didn’t realize were possible. It has allowed me to contribute to other people in meaningful ways. I’m not going back to a goal-oriented life. No goals. None at all. Life is outstanding without them.
http://zenhabits.net/100-days/
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12-11-2011 , 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted by napsus
have you guys tried searching your "optimal creative/efficient window", meaning the time of the day when you are most effective (poker wise, for you who play for living)?
Definitely somewhere around 3am-8am.

I'm a complitely ****** when I play at mornings (3pm-8pm). Trying to avoid that nowadays. Also for some reason I play (or at least have had some good results) after coming back from bars. When I'm drunk enough I tend to play more solid and not make any stupid moves. When starting to drink and playing simultaneously it's the complite opposite. I usually play quite passive game pre, but when I have had fhew beers I'm the worst aggro monkey ever.
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12-12-2011 , 02:13 AM
Wow,

This is exactly what i was looking for! I used to be a huge grinder when i was in school, was kinda decent at NL 6max and PLO, but after i finished i kinda got worse and worse.. (I know its funny)

I guess what i started to miss out on was balancing life and poker, as all i do now is sit in front of my computer,eat junk food/dont eat at all/smoke/ drink coffee.

I live in country side, so theres not many options to do really, im getting really sick of this and since today i'll make a schedule of what i can do to make this BS whats happening into real life.

Im not a fulltime player, but i have work which is very much related to serving players, so im really stuck all day long..

I guess i could use more time on analyzing my sessions/just talking/ walks/working out.

Think everyone's been there, just have to say ''enough'' one day and start a new page in your book.,,


All of what i wrote has allready been written and i actually just did it for myself, a little easier to motivate myself

Cheers guys
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