100% Agreed.

DTB (Divorce that Bitch)

That's so f'n f'ed up bro. Divorce that lying, cheating whore of a wife. There are many reasons why women cheat but it has a lot to do with the phases they go through in life. As they get older, they are just not happy anymore and they go out and cheat. Look at it like driving the same car for 10 years. It gets old and worn out. There's nothing like that new car smell.

Just hang in there. You have no idea how much better life is going to be. Just look at this as a learning experience.

Lesson here: DONT GET MARRIED. PERIOD!

Well, I'm not sure if you know this, but I'm a pretty big deal around here.

Yeti is pretty easy to see that mbp is kissing ass.

Lfs was awful in that thread and its cool fellate bison's advice.

Blood not necessary.

Wife doesn't need/have to know a test was done.

Nope. He should have it done it without her knowing. EZ game.

No reason at all.

Forgiveness is easier than permission.

She won't be offended by that which she doesn't know.

Hospital not necessary.

This.

Find the lab you want to use and either get the swabs from them or ask them what kind of swabs you need to get. No need for the wife to know and there's no need to get a swab/specimen from her.

Atleast you caught her, wish I could catch mine and get back in that fish bowl. Oh and also, the answer isn't to blow yours or his brains out. Not his fault your wifes a sloot.

I notice you left the wife off your "do not kill" list.

lol Good catch

Sorry to hear about this OP. Rough situation. Doing "the right thing" is probably going to be tough no matter what it is.

And grab some of her dirty panties stat.

http://www.getcheckmate.com/testawoman.html

morning OP. make sure to keep us updated. Good luck with everything

In before "then we had sex"

http://www.getcheckmate.com/testimonials.html

"My husband stopped seeing his hunting buddy after I used you kit"

LOL .. uh ... she caught a closet ****?

Lol, cuckold itt. This **** is why mandatory paternity testing needs to be done.

ZOMG, those testimonials are mint, and they just keep going and going!

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Actually from this conversation I'm not sure if they have met IRL yet. His wishing for her to get a webcam and a mic means he wants to do cyber masturbation in front of each other which typically they won't care about doing after they have already done the in person version. It is definitely crossing the line and she is instigating the exchange, but he expresses love first and the whole "snuggle" thing is just screams of some horny loser trying to get some action somehow.

However, I wouldn't be surprised if they had exchanged photos - you can add that to your search. Plus, with Facebook it is relatively easy to find out where the guy lives, works, etc. If he is married as well I wouldn't hesitate to contact his wife with the same exchange once you have this all figured out.

Curious about this. What did she up?

You're looking for the secret, but you won't find it. Because of course, you're not really looking. You don't really want to know. You want to be fooled.

Do people really fall in love before they meet, before sex, before any kind of intimate moment such as a kiss or embrace whatever? I am having a hard time understanding falling in love from talking on the internet.

I guess some have before but to me this seems very unlikely.

It wasn't meant to be a slight. Those are the two names that came to the top of my mind when thinking about general advice type posters who were likely to also post itt. There was a ton of good advice in my thread from lots of people outside those two for sure.

And I think there is a difference between soft and nuanced fwiw.

ringfry steals phone in morning.

wife wakes up realizes phone is missing.

goes on facebook and chats up her lover telling him of the situation and not to reveal anything via text message.

ringfry gains no knowledge.

if you are going to do this you need to disconnect your internet...or text him immediately when you wake up before she has a chance to alert him.

also if he doesn't reply to your texts, it's likely your wife has alerted him, which should set off more alarm bells.

Confronting cheater too soon seems to be the norm? In both mbp's case and here both should have quietly gathered information first i'm sure we can all agree. But I suppose the raw emotions is what wipes out making smart, rational decisions in this spot. But anyway...here we go again.

More updates plz. And GL OP.

(plz don't lock Yeti)

Why should he go stay anywhere. They definitely need time apart but she's the one who should be staying with a friend. Being in someone else's house is just going to make him more depressed.

OP, whatever you do, do not "then we had sex" with her anytime soon.

THE BABY THING IS REAL.

This. The emotional transgression is so much worse than the physical imo.

Yeessssssssss!

Although, having just actually looked it up it appears there was another, more recent study, that contradicted the earlier study. So, who knows. Cool idea, anyway.

Don't agree. If his wife is just messaging some guy, well, life can get boring after years of marriage and a kid. You can get sucked up in the fantasy without actually wanting to leave or cheat on your husband. **** gets real when his **** comes out though.

Once the wife says "I love you" to some other dude its all downhill from there... if she didn't sex him she is going to sex somebody else... just end it and take care of the kid(s).

This is why I usually just go ahead and cheat first....