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Originally Posted by grando1.0
Cottage weekends are amazing - huge house on the lake, friends of friends getting wrecked and making bad decisions, boats and sea doos all over the place. What's not to like?
In the winter exchange the boating for ski doos, swimming with hot tubbing, and the drinking and bad decisions are the same.
it's all fun and games until someone loses an eye.....glass
lense.
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Originally Posted by boscoboy
Obviously pay for the glasses since you already kinda offered.
I would go with her to pick out new frames and make a day(date) of it - maybe add in lunch/drinks and you guys can talk/laugh about what might have really happened to her glasses;fess up, you dont think you broke them but its such a bad spot for everybody you just wanted to pay and make it right, for her, discuss who in this large group may be dating, what the plans are for the next year house, etc etc.
two things could happen :
1 - she likes you, enjoyed your shopping time and your charms and pictures herself hooking up with you next year if the opportunity presents itself
2 - she isnt really interested but will happily give you good references to the other girls on the next trip since you were such a great guy non date/date
this seems like a pretty good play except for the fact this chick seems like a crazy bitch.
a normal person would pay for their own ****ing glasses since it was clearly an accident n no way to know who did it.
if u say u don't think u sat on them (u would most likely feel it if u did) and she doesn't believe you and still wants you to pay for a new pair she's a ****ing sociopath and if ur not gonna get invited back cuz the rest of the group takes her side ur better off finding a new group of friends who aren't ****ing insane.
also you should really try not to admit to things you didn't do in order to ease social tension or whatever, it's a really bad idea n if you continue to do it you'll find yourself in way worse spots.