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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Hey auntie, you babysitted me all the time as a kid and I am getting married so you should come. But make sure you realize that we are spending 100 a head on this so don't come if you can give a gift >100. Sorry. That would be rude.
I love you but I love making money off you more.
I see what you're saying, my post requires clarification.
You simply do your level-best to estimate based on the venue, the time, etc. It is not spoken, and a bit of a guessing game.
Parent's backyard at sunrise, reception at brunch...probably slightly less.
Fancy, much sought after, venue with dinner and reception at high end hotel, slightly more.
How do you decide what to put in? Flat amount?