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Originally Posted by microbet
I walked from downtown to the airport in LV in the summer (only 90 deg or so though I think) with a suitcase from a mixture of being cheap, not minding a walk, and underestimating how far it was.
underestimating how far something is in vegas pretty much defines my first few trips there.
"Oh it's just across the street and up one casino. It's right there only 1½ blocks away..." 45 minutes later we finally get there.
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Originally Posted by I_AM_EVIL
King_of_NYC needs the under title.....King_of_Douches.
MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!!!!!!
My dad's side of the family is huge. I have 12 aunts/uncles and too damn many cousins to count. My grandmother would steal silverware from restaurants b/c it was cheaper than buying them to have enough for everyone when we'd have family dinners.
This just in: stealing cheaper than buying.
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Originally Posted by King_of_NYC
I could go. The issue was if I should go. This wasn't a bachelor party but a thank-you for those participating in the wedding for their time, effort and expense. For an event like this married couples are a package deal imo. I would have rather pissed off my buddy than the old lady. I think I made the rite choice
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Originally Posted by Your Mom
I suppose you could, but I really wouldn't want to be friends with someone that doesn't invite my wife to a rehearsal dinner. I think people are underestimating how bizarre/cheap that is.
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Originally Posted by ScottieK
IMO isn't it customary for significant others of the bridal party to be invited to the rehearsal dinner and the reception? And he sprung this on you the day before the rehearsal dinner? FWIW if they didn't have enough money to pay for $50 plates for the bridal party plus significant others, maybe they could have gone somewhere else that was $25 a plate? My sister-in-law didn't have much money for their rehearsal dinner. They had their rehearsal dinner at a pizza joint, and it went over just fine. Or maybe you could have paid for your wife's dinner.....although assuming you pitched in your fair share for the bachelor party and whatever other expenses you had for the wedding (tuxedo, etc.) then I think $50 extra for your wife to attend isn't too much to ask.
Also FWIW, you made it clear that you wouldn't attend without your wife. He should have just accepted that and dropped it right there. If anyone tries to make you choose between them and your wife, if it's your mom, your best friend, whoever, you back your wife 100% of the time.
The wedding thing is unbelievably bad to do 1 day before the rehearsal dinner. I wouldn't have gone to the rehearsal dinner either. If he had said from the start (or at least several months in advance) "I'm sorry, your wife can't come to the rehearsal dinner" then it would be understandable--weird, but understandable.
By the time the wedding comes around my wife has already bought a dress and shoes specifically for the dinner and is expecting to come, because it is 100% standard for a wife to be automatically invited to any sort of dinner like that. This is proven by the fact that the groom had to specifically talk to him and say that his wife was not auto-invited as expected.
The fact that everyone is up in arms about this guy not going to the dinner shows how many mouthbreathers we have on here with no idea of what is normal.
Just because it is their wedding does not mean you have to excuse awful behavior.