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Originally Posted by supafrey
Um I vote for exactly the opposite. Ask people questions about themselves, their lives, something they've shown an interest in. Choose something you yourself are at least remotely interested in so that you can actually listen. If you find something interesting, mention the fact, or ask more about it; if you can relate, share a story of your own; is there something silly (in a good way) or funny about their experience? Mention that.
yea but you didn't got the point.
i.e. instead
you:"how was at your work today?"
he/she: "ok."
you can say
you:"you look so tired, must have been a hard day at work"
he/she:"yea sucked **** to boss bla bla bla"
it's about rephrasing, not having no interest in them.. if you make statements, conversation flows more naturally etc.