This thread is surprisingly not terrible. Good job, dudes.
Obviously I can't say for sure how things are going to go for me, since I'm in the idealistic barely pregnant phase, but I guess I lean to the hippie parenting side of things.
First, we're planning to have a natural, no-drugs, low intervention birth in a birth center with a midwife. My dad thinks I'm out of my mind, but whatever. Planning to breast feed for at least a year, and play it by ear from there. (P.S. breastfeeding benefits are important up to that year mark, because that is when a baby's immune system is really developed enough not to need antibodies from mom, but any breastfeeding is better than none.) I want to cloth diaper, but I think we're going to get a diaper service because I hate laundry, so it doesn't seem very "hippie" to me.
I want to co-sleep, but probably with some sort of bedside attachment, because hubby is a heavy sleeper and I worry about baby-crushing, but I'd prefer the convenience of not actually having to get out of bed at night for on-demand breastfeeding.
As far as other parenting stuff goes, I'm not there yet, but I really like
Ask Moxie. She definitely tends toward the granola (and there is a lot more emphasis on organic and avoiding high fructose corn syrup and the like that I find a little obnoxious), but she takes the stand that kids are different, and different parenting philosophies are going to work differently for different kids. She likes to ask for "data points" from her readers, so you get a wide range of answers and experience. On the Ferberizing thing, for example, she is of the mind that some kids release tension by crying, and others gain it, and whether or not sleep training or crying-it-out will work or make everyone miserable will depend heavily on that. But she may be too touchy-feely for y'all.