My day isn't blown yet, I can still skip dinner and be at 1200cals today.

ADMIT!

good grief you may be a narcissist, forget the BPD

some of the last page or two are just mind boggling

If you have to starve the rest of the day because of a piece of cake you've blown the day. You could exercise but who are we kidding here?

I don't have BPD. I talked with the new therapist about it yesterday and he also said he didn't think I have it. He said I had some of the same symptoms, but mine are real. He said my fear of abandonment is very real because it actually happened to me several times, but someone with BPD has imagined fear of abandonment with no previous history of abandonment. He also commented on my general demeanor and emotional control like the last therapist.
I think it's safe to put that to rest; three experienced professionals with PHDs have said I don't have BPD and these people have tested me and met me irl.

If you read her thread "How to Handle a Narcissist" or whatever it was, it was pretty obvious then.

Her and SIL seem very similar also, hence code's attraction. Really it seems like they're a bunch of narcissistic nihilists hanging out together. Goes along with her overindulgence in ... well basically everything.

I'm a narcissist because I want some attention from my boyfriend(whom ditched me last year to go to a bb game with his sister) on my birthday?

Wtf? So being abandoned at some point in your life precludes you from bpd? If you are not mistaken and understand what that therapist was saying accurately you should reject their diagnosis.

He also talked about my emotional control like the other guy did. Apparently people with BPD don't have any emotional control irl and aren't introspective.

Nothing wrong with having cake on your birthday, but Chili's...? Really?

There isn't a local bakery or something that you could go to and have an actual real cake made for yourself instead of one of those nasty frozen lava cakes that just gets nuked for 90 seconds?

If you're gonna do it, do it right. It's your birthday. Don't go to ****ing Chili's and eat their garbage, you're not 14 years old. No wonder you feel sick.

Get yourself a real cake. Wait until January if you need to for the bet, but treat yourself to a real cake from a real bakery using real ingredients. Or better yet, make a cake from scratch with your daughter as a joint activity. That would be fun.

I hear gas stations make good baked products

You're not introspective tho.

You prbly use what you've been told in this tread as a substitute in conversation with the shrink tho.

code loves chili's

In a single session? Well done.

You don't think so because I don't respond to every single post in here especially the ones that are meant to insult me and demean me with the guise of being helpful.
But, the people I talk to irl know that I am very introspective.

Yep. But she puts "just..." at the beginning of it so it's not insane and needy and pathetic, right?

Her psychotic demands include never texting another woman, looking at their facebook page, going to their house, or make physical contact with one. Anything else gets an insane temper tantrum, name calling, outing of private information on the internet, guilt trips re: her child, crying, threats to fork a bitch, etc.

Oh but if Code wants her to be less disgusting in any way he's an ******* who doesn't understand she has a pretty face and is going to be perfect one day for herself and no one else.

I added to that post.

I assume you said some things in the session that you were told here. That's not you coming up with them.

I think you lack introspection because you're so quick to blame everyone else.

And you can cut out the "irl," I'm the same guy here, most of us are ourselves. I'd bet dollars to donuts that El D, RJ, Reid, Didace, Fabian, etc are all themselves. This you is more the real you, because it's what's actually in your mind.

I'm sure your frantic co-worker doesn't think of you as the "sweetest person."

Eh I think even thin people have cake or whatever on their birthday. It's ok to have an excuse to do something special on your birthday imo. Maybe its kind of dumb and weird but adults do celebrate stuff like birthdays and indulge in food they shouldn't.

MLYLT eats terrible food frequently in order not to be rude (I assume this can be slightly blamed on LOL TEXAS in two different ways, but still). She's not passing up on cake or whatever on her birthday. If MLYLT learns something, its to not indulge in a lot of terrible food in social situations in order to accommodate other people in some way. Though that could be wrong, I dunno.

MLYLT - I'd say ask code3 to make you a cake, but I think we all know how that would end up. codesis & SIL would be enjoying a fine cake that code3 would justify to you as being a "practice cake" that he needed to make before making yours, then he'd refuse to make you one at all because you pointed out how crazy it was that they got a cake first when ITS NOT EVEN THEIR BIRTHDAY. Then they'd have a podcast discussion about their delicious cake while enjoying every bite of it. Meanwhile you are left sitting there with nasty leftover partially congealed re-microwaved Chili's dirt cake.

Tell me that's not EXACTLY what would happen!

My normal demands are him not looking at girls fb when he doesn't even look at mine, not letting a girl rub on him, and not going to a girls house that wants and tries to **** him.
These are completely normal to want.

MLYLT,

tries.

Maybe she meant trois

If Code3 gives in to even one of her 'demands' then he deserves the misery she will bring to him.

You forgot that they would post pics of the cake on their Facebooks to rub it in my face, but everything else is exactly what would happen!

How dare you call that a cake.