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Old 04-21-2017, 09:31 AM   #1776
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re: OOT Bad Parenting Containment Thread

Code3 doesn't give a **** about you or your daughter in the end. He cares about himself and it is much easier to tell someone "you are being crazy, I'm not coming now" and treat you like they would a dog and punish you by taking things away you want. It is very hard to help someone in your condition, very extremely hard, and code3 clearly has absolutely no motivation to do it, he just strings you along mostly because of your high sex drive.

Pretending this dude is him, pretending he is going to care, and trying to make all these statements about what you want and how he should act is sad and pathetic.

He isn't that dude, he is some guy who was willing to stick it in you during a period of time in your life where you were starting out in the workforce and raising your daughter from infancy.

The sooner you can become strong on your own, and become independent of him, the sooner you have a chance at building a stronger mental capacity, and given that you have a daughter, people here believe you REQUIRE a stronger mental capacity to make her into something you are proud of. You are currently making her into an emotional wreck who cares wayyyyyyy too much about Code 3 and has emotional attachments that 5 year olds just should not have. She is a reflection of you and as long as you are sick and unhealthy mentally, you are ****ing her over, at this rate she seems pretty much toast.
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Old 04-21-2017, 09:40 AM   #1777
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Here are the crude facts, MLY. (We've talked in private a little, too, if you remember.)

Outside of writers and philosophers, it doesn't normally require someone to say many, many thousands of words on their feelings to have understanding of them. This is a clear sign you have VERY SERIOUS work to be done.

Make this a priority. Find professionals to help you with this, and move the **** on with your life. Your career, and your child, are depending on it.

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Old 04-21-2017, 10:02 AM   #1778
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Yes I need therapy, I need help.

Something kind of magical happened last night and I was really able to reflect on my emotions and actions and just overall craziness.

I have a new friend who has been somewhat in the loop on my relationship with code3. He knows I'm bipolar and crazy and it really doesn't matter to him, he just constantly wants to help. I told him the recent events and I'm just repeating one of my crazy cycles over and over again and he said he would come over so we could have a "cry session" lol.

It's was really awkward but he did this kind of guided meditation with me and just held and hugged me while I cried. He just kept telling me it's okay to be sad, it's okay to cry, find the emotion and bring it forward and release it, everything's going to be okay. This is the first time on my life anyone has ever held me while I cried and told me everything will be okay; it was the best thing I have ever felt in my life. I pretended it was code3 holding me and saying that to me and then I pretended it was other various people and it was like magic, like this longing had been filled. We did some other stuff too like making an energy circle(eyeroll) and bringing things in and letting things go, and some other guided meditation stuff.

After all that he wanted to read all the messages I sent to code3 and give me an unbiased perspective. His conclusion was , yeah I'm bat**** crazy, sending that many text in the timeframe is completely insane, but code3 knows I'm crazy and instead of comforting me and saying he knows I'm upset even if it's not rational and giving me reasurance that everything's going to be okay, he ignores me and then things intensify.

Yes I'm crazy and do crazy things and say crazy things, but code3 knows this and chose to be with me despite this, so why doesnt he change his response when this happens? The same can be asked of me, I know he prioritizes his family, I chose to be with him despite this, so why can't I change my reaction when this happens or take a step back besides I'm just completely crazy.

This guy is just amazing. He'll ask me questions and I'll respond, "I don't want you to think I'm crazy" and he'll say "well I already know your crazy, so let's just talk about it and work through it"
****, this is brilliant writing.
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:06 AM   #1779
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So what are we going to call this new guy/character?

Hypno chode? Granobody? Harry Whittington?
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:06 AM   #1780
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Chapter 10:
MLYLT Meets a Tinder Therapist and it was Magical
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Something kind of magical happened last night and... This guy is just amazing...
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:08 AM   #1781
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So what are we going to call this new guy/character?

Hypno chode? Granobody? Harry Whittington?
Imaginary Friend?
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:21 AM   #1782
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So what are we going to call this new guy/character?

Hypno chode? Granobody? Harry Whittington?
Rebound we're not going to hear about again once she's done attempting to manipulate Code.
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:23 AM   #1783
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Imaginary Friend?
Winner.

Lock it up. Nothing else to see here.
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:34 AM   #1784
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If this imaginary/real friend helps M to deal and really separate from code this time, I am totally for ......

I mean whatever helps is good, and if it is holly water then I am for it.

Especially cool would be if he would take her by the hand and walk to the therapy.

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Old 04-21-2017, 10:59 AM   #1785
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I can't remember, did you do this with babs as well? How many times would you estimate you've typed out what is essentially the same post? It's a couple times a week, most weeks of the month, for how many months?

Obviously it's your time to waste, but I just don't get it.
Yes. Probably 50. Less than 2x a week on avg. Many months.

What can I say, there's not much more valuable I don't feel awkward doing while pooping.
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:02 AM   #1786
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[ ] has moved on from code3
[ ] has started regular therapy
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:05 AM   #1787
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[x] has met magical hugger
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:08 AM   #1788
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M,

What's the story with face-cupper?
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:34 AM   #1789
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She's incredibly self centered and it shows in her writing. Lots of "i" and "me" and "this makes me feel", etc. It's a sign of depression. Spend more time thinking of people's perspectives around you, instead of your own and you might feel better.
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:38 AM   #1790
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M,

What's the story with face-cupper?
It was facecupper who gave the hugging session. He's been in contact with me for a while now and we have actually become pretty good friends.
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:44 AM   #1791
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M,

So you went from crazy intense super kinky BDSM sex with this guy to cry and cuddle buddies?

Has code known you've been talking to him for a while?
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:52 AM   #1792
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So what are we going to call this new guy/character?

Hypno chode? Granobody? Harry Whittington?
The psychowhisperer.

Was anyone else astonished by how few misspellings there were in that text to Code? Unreal.

And once again: M, go see a professional therapist ASAP. Your friend may be nice to have, but you need professional help.
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:55 AM   #1793
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Pretty much.

Nothing for code3 to be concerned with, we are just friends and he is dating other girls and accepted that I was in a relationship and that he and I really weren't compatible anyway.
We have a great friendship, he's a really great guy, and I'm glad I met him.He's a little too spiritual at times and has a fear of the universe imploding, but I find it interesting to hear about his acid trips.

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Old 04-21-2017, 12:01 PM   #1794
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Imploding.
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Old 04-21-2017, 12:02 PM   #1795
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He might be worried about it being loaded with emps.
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Old 04-21-2017, 12:06 PM   #1796
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Imploding.
Thanks , I spelled it that way but with an a somewhere so I tried with an e
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Old 04-21-2017, 12:06 PM   #1797
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I find it interesting to hear about his acid trips.
There's an idea.
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Old 04-21-2017, 12:19 PM   #1798
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He might be worried about it being loaded with emps.
Lol
It's more of he thinks it's going to fold in on itself or something
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Old 04-21-2017, 12:23 PM   #1799
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Old 04-21-2017, 12:31 PM   #1800
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You're a scientist. You should explain that the universe is going to end by expanding, not imploding.
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