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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
So none of you remember the history of him never making me a priority, and that I have driven to him litterally every single weekend for almost a year! It would be different if in the past he hadn't chosen to go to a basketball game with his sister on my birthday. Take my car and leave me and my kid stranded 3 days a week to hang out with his sister and always always always do everything for everyone seems before he would do it for me. There is a history of him putting me last. Do you think I would have said anything to him if he was a great boyfriend and made me a priority in the past?
It's like, imagine if i buy someone a sandwich every single week at work, because I like them. Imagine even that I have romantic feelings for this person, and I tell them it's really no problem and I do it because I just like them so much. They even offer to return the favor at some point in the future, but are broke so they cant usually afford it. I still buy them weekly anyway, and constantly remind them that I buy them a sandwich every week and they should feel bad they dont buy me a sandwich too.
Then one day I snap. This POS has never once bought me a sandwich! How dare they. It's so selfish, I buy them a sandwich every week and they dont even return the favor. They even tell me to stop bringing them sandwiches when I told them I'd kill their family! The nerve.
Do you see anything weird in this line of thinking, or can you conclude anything here?