ATF,

If you have almost zero excitement about meeting her, why are you chatting w her? Are you that starved for attention and validation?

Because it's a game to him and lolassburgers, that's why.

lol

I wasn't. I ignored her last text three weeks ago. She reopened with a legit question and I answered it. She responded in a surprisingly conversational tone. I replied back. She killed the convo with "NP. take care" and my interest plummeted again.

I'd be pleased about not responding to any of ATF's posts if it weren't for this post where I felt the need to congratulate myself.

I feel it's sort of sad, like when you have a wrong dog.

Well things went as planned.

Played 1 game of crazy 8 countdown then suggested Netflix. We start making out 5min into movie, I eventually suggest we go to the bedroom and she responds saying that is only for the 3rd date. I smile, we continue making out and about 5min later, a bit to my surprise, she suggest we go to the bedroom LOL.

I wasn't planning on seeing her again as she is definitely not relationship material, but of course she conveniently left a ring in my bed.... I assume I have no choice, but to see her again?

Although, she did peak my interest a bit in seeing her again when I was driving her home as she mentioned a human sexual health class she is currently taking. Sounds quite interesting and apparently the course material included a 30minute discussion on giving BJs.

Anyway, interesting experience to say the least given I only spent about 2.5 hours total with her before she gave it up. She also mentioned she was disappointed I hadn't really answered any of the sex questions on my OKC profile.

So, is it time for me to breath life back into this thread?

Amazin,

Yes!!!

Sounds like a plan. Like I said a couple months back I planned to give up on dating and work on improving myself for the rest of the year. But this thread is just so listless, and a couple dates a week won't kill me. I'll take some new pictures and have Jenni help me with my profile.

And come to Connecticut?

I'll come around Thanksgiving. In the meantime I'll have some suites in A.C if you want to go on the prowl

I'll be there the week of November 11

Sad world we live in where incompetence is so openly celebrated and something to take pride in.

I'm learning as I go and giving 100% effort

100% effort? You just went form working on yourself to to dating in effectively 0s flat.

You post in Sl about barely even talking with the cocktail waitress.

This is a clear example of the difference between laughing with you and laughing at you.

I will let you guess which one is going on.




Taking pride in all of this is a little disturbing. GL tho.

0 seconds flat? I've done nothing but play poker for almost 2 months. Yes, I decided not to ask out the waitress, but I do want to learn how to be friendly and personable with the staff, as my posts today reflect. Also, the fact I spoke to her at all is an improvement.

It would be naive of me to say that no one in this thread is laughing at me, but I can think of at least one poster here who I feel is genuinely in my corner and wants me to succeed.

are these mutually exclusive?

edit: i genuinely want you to succeed, but that doesnt mean im not gonna laugh at you when you screw up. and i expect nothing less in return.

Amazin,

I hope that poster you were referring to is me!

@amazin
I hope you roll it up amazin but its kinda true that you were on the emo horse before about women and I cant but help like feeling that nothing has changed in the mean while. Im rooting for you obv.

I just got owned hardcore, I had a date for Friday (The 'lets keep this round friendly' girl), I gave her my number to take care of details this week and yesterday she sends me a message (on OKC):
'Hey I'm not going to be able to make it out Friday, sorry'

This is obviously someone who isn't really interested right ? I was semi looking forward to it but ok, luckily enough I opened with another girl but not sure where I stand;

I want to send her that last message, is it bad/too forward ?

Yak,

I think it's fine but I'd make it much shorter: hey I know it's short notice, but I'm going to be in Amsterdam this weekend! How about getting a couple of drinks at x around 8pm friday? My # is 00-034-077-099-023564-00367

I suck at short posting/texting :| thx El D

It was actually Jenni but you definitely fall into that category!

Hey guys,

In your experience, does online dating have a higher introversion than the general population?