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Optimal strategy:

Go through the quiver match thing and rate every girl a 4 or 5. She gets notified and will check your profile like 99%. If she messages you you're in, and then can decide if you're interested. You can do 25 in a few minutes, and then still take the time to send out messages to the ones that really catch your eye.

I don't even view the pictures or profiles, just hammer the 5 star button.

I've always wondered if women find it slightly creepy or lame when men rate them highly but don't message them.

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01-03-2013 , 04:31 PM

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NickMPK

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Originally Posted by AlexM

Is POF a good site? I've used almost exclusively OKC for a while, but I'm tired of it. Working more on my live game atm, but it's something I can do while pokering or whatever.

Online dating is kinda meh for me though. I'm 38 but everyone thinks I look 29/30, so online gives me away!

I think OKCupid is miles better than POF, at least if you are white.

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01-03-2013 , 04:43 PM

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sharpyetblunt

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Originally Posted by Burdzthewurd

CougarLife is a tarp, vast majority of women on there are spambots/fake, at least in Boston/NYC area. Not worth the price of admission. Go to upscale hotel bars if you want cougars

This is true of all those small niche dating sites. They hire people to reply to messages and string people on as long as possible so they keep paying subscription.

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01-03-2013 , 04:43 PM

#1304

AlexM

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Originally Posted by NickMPK

I think OKCupid is miles better than POF, at least if you are white.

It was great when I lived in Atlanta, but it seems dead as heck down here in Tampa.

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01-03-2013 , 04:44 PM

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sharpyetblunt

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OKC>Match>>>>POF

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01-03-2013 , 04:48 PM

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Csaba

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Originally Posted by sharpyetblunt

This is true of all those small niche dating sites. They hire people to reply to messages and string people on as long as possible so they keep paying subscription.

I set up a free account which had something along the lines of "I've set up this account solely to have a look around". I had 50 odd messages in my in box before I shut the account down.

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01-03-2013 , 04:50 PM

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WVUskinsfan

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so on pof, do i just message people and hope they write back?

Is it that simple?

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01-03-2013 , 04:51 PM

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AlexM

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Already very disappointed with POF. It's trying to match me with women my age and the very oldest I'm interest in is a woman 3 years younger than me.

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01-03-2013 , 05:00 PM

#1309

TJay

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Originally Posted by NickMPK

I've always wondered if women find it slightly creepy or lame when men rate them highly but don't message them.

Everything about online dating is slightl creepy and lame.

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01-03-2013 , 05:06 PM

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fredd-bird

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Originally Posted by WVUskinsfan

so on pof, do i just message people and hope they write back?

Is it that simple?

Nah, gotta send them pictures of your dick first. If they respond, they might be interested in meeting you.

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01-03-2013 , 05:09 PM

#1311

WVUskinsfan

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Originally Posted by fredd-bird

Nah, gotta send them pictures of your dick first. If they respond, they might be interested in meeting you.

actually a couple of them already responded.

sending dick pics now...

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01-03-2013 , 05:13 PM

#1312

wutangpoker

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What to do with this?

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/kayla1joesph

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01-03-2013 , 05:14 PM

#1313

amazinmets73

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So no one thinks spamming each others inboxes to gain a replies selectively is a good idea?

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01-03-2013 , 05:14 PM

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Gaddy

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Originally Posted by wutangpoker

What to do with this?

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/kayla1joesph

Have boring sex with her and don't finish?

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01-03-2013 , 05:15 PM

#1315

amazinmets73

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Originally Posted by wutangpoker

What to do with this?

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/kayla1joesph

Run.

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01-03-2013 , 05:16 PM

#1316

wutangpoker

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Originally Posted by Gaddy

Have boring sex with her and don't finish?

More interested in whether mentioning her autism is off limits.

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01-03-2013 , 05:31 PM

#1317

WVUskinsfan

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This is very interesting as im already in talks with one women.

Wondering how many dates/sex/bjs I can get from milfs. Wondering about prop bet..

I would think autism would be off limits, unless of course it would help you finally cum

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01-03-2013 , 05:39 PM

#1318

wutangpoker

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That was probably the strangest profile I've seen yet... I'm not sure about the ethics of linking to other peoples' profiles, but I felt like I had to get some commentary on that one.

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01-03-2013 , 06:19 PM

#1319

El Diablo

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wu,

Wow. I thought "no army men please" at the end was pretty funny.

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01-03-2013 , 06:50 PM

#1320

ahmngrn30

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hahaha she's going to be wondering why her profile views skyrocket all of a sudden from all over the country from guys that like to play poker

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01-03-2013 , 06:53 PM

#1321

El Diablo

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WVU,

What age range are you going for? And you are what, like 27?

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01-03-2013 , 07:13 PM

#1322

WVUskinsfan

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30-80

i'm 29

Last edited by WVUskinsfan; 01-03-2013 at 07:14 PM. Reason: j/k like 30-40

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01-03-2013 , 07:31 PM

#1323

El Diablo

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WVU,

I bet you could bang a different 6-8 looking 35-45yo every night if you wanted. Early 30s will be a lot harder. Good luck!

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01-03-2013 , 07:40 PM

#1324

WVUskinsfan

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Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 5,055

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Originally Posted by wutangpoker

What to do with this?

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/kayla1joesph

I joined this site just to check out the profile people were commenting on. bitch is cray for sure, but at least she let's you know it up front.

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01-03-2013 , 07:58 PM

#1325

WVUskinsfan

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I guess im way behind and most people probably have profile on one of these sites now...This is pretty cool.

Part of me wants to make a profile that is just absurd and offensive for lols.

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