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12-14-2012 , 03:18 PM
You can come up with your own stuff but basically you have to acknowledge why you didn't talk to her for s whole year. No way around without coming across creepy. The only way to do that is with humor and a big smile on your face,unapologetic. Yeah bitch I'm shy attitude
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12-14-2012 , 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by sharpyetblunt
Or just say "hey you used to waitress right? I remember you serving me, im ____, fancy grabbing a drink sometime?"
Uhm ewwwww creepy

EDIT: youre basically saying hi I'm a loser and don't go anywhere but I remember getting a drink from you 6 months ago.

Last edited by BadLieutenant; 12-14-2012 at 03:24 PM.
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12-14-2012 , 03:22 PM
BL just moved up to the top three posters I've ever known.

lol@thinking a girl would like seeing "beb"

she won't get it, and when you explain it she'll think you're a nerd and a ***.

I would say on the "what girls like" spectrum memes fall somewhere between getting texted 400 times a day and rape jokes
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12-14-2012 , 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted by BadLieutenant
Uhm ewwwww creepy

EDIT: youre basically saying hi I'm a loser and don't go anywhere but I remember getting a drink from you 6 months ago.
Please stop.
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12-14-2012 , 03:35 PM
Sounds good. There's another waitress who I got her number, and we met up at a club. At the club, she laughed at me for being shy "It took you 8 months to speak to me"

I texted her a couple weeks later and she didn't recognize my # so I never spoke to her again. Just saw her for the first time in 4 months, and she said hi.

I'm still interested, ideas?
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12-14-2012 , 03:41 PM
Here's what I do :

Me: blah blah text
Her: who is this
Me: your future ex- dark,handsome,potty trained

Always text the same night though:

"It was random and crazy meeting you. I had fun-amazin"

This way she knows who's texting her.



EDIT: send this and post the convo
I found this number in a bathroom stall,is this still the # to call for a good time?
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12-14-2012 , 03:55 PM
BL

screenshots of this working please
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12-14-2012 , 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by KPowers
BL

screenshots of this working please
Deleted the texts but I found the thread: manwhore.org/forum/content/chicks-got-game-need-some-help


Those ****ers didn't help much though.
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12-14-2012 , 03:59 PM
bl is a perfect example of the fact that women are begging to go out with guys. He is clearly not that smart, probably not good looking, guaranteed he doesn't make good money. And yet he is getting laid more than most because he is asking out girls and making an effort.
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12-14-2012 , 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by samsonh
bl is a perfect example of the fact that women are begging to go out with guys. He is clearly not that smart, probably not good looking, guaranteed he doesn't make good money. And yet he is getting laid more than most because he is asking out girls and making an effort.
Lol thanks.
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12-14-2012 , 06:21 PM
So I made some progress today. My friend is a waitress at a restaurant I frequent. We were chatting, and she said "my friend thinks you're cute". So I look over and see a cute hispanic chick. She asks if she wants me to introduce us, so I say sure. She comes over, and we chat, she's from Allentown, and is a fan of the Yankees and their AAA team. So we talk about baseball, and some other crap. Kinda awkward, but I got her #.
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12-14-2012 , 07:59 PM
A super hot (relative of course) girl on pof sent me back a message, about our 4th exchange. Just said she has nothing to do tonight but is busy the rest of the weekend. Not really much for me to respond about. What's my play? Wait til tomorrow to respond the same try to get a drink with her early next week? Ask about local sports/weather/news etc...?
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12-14-2012 , 08:01 PM
Some girl I've been chatting with called me out of the blue today. I just asked her out, told her we should go to a lounge. Looking for a place right now.
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12-14-2012 , 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by eastern motors
A super hot (relative of course) girl on pof sent me back a message, about our 4th exchange. Just said she has nothing to do tonight but is busy the rest of the weekend. Not really much for me to respond about. What's my play? Wait til tomorrow to respond the same try to get a drink with her early next week? Ask about local sports/weather/news etc...?
ffs, call her if you have her number and invite her out somewhere. If you don't have her number, message her immediately with your number and offer to get together for a drink. NOW. wtf?
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12-14-2012 , 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by eastern motors
A super hot (relative of course) girl on pof sent me back a message, about our 4th exchange. Just said she has nothing to do tonight but is busy the rest of the weekend. Not really much for me to respond about. What's my play? Wait til tomorrow to respond the same try to get a drink with her early next week? Ask about local sports/weather/news etc...?
Why wouldnt you just go out with her tonight?
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12-14-2012 , 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by eastern motors
A super hot (relative of course) girl on pof sent me back a message, about our 4th exchange. Just said she has nothing to do tonight but is busy the rest of the weekend. Not really much for me to respond about. What's my play? Wait til tomorrow to respond the same try to get a drink with her early next week? Ask about local sports/weather/news etc...?
this is got to be a level
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12-14-2012 , 08:12 PM
I haven't told her I can't drive yet, but I know she has a car.
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12-14-2012 , 08:35 PM
BL, what's your opinion on girls with boyfriends? I personally am still going after them.
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12-14-2012 , 08:53 PM
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I haven't told her I can't drive yet, but I know she has a car.
Are there really not any buses or taxis in your country? How is not having a DL a problem?
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12-14-2012 , 08:55 PM
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this is got to be a level
I'm already at a friend's house getting ready to go out tonight. She sent it at about 6pm. I guess ditching my friends is an option but not really my style
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12-14-2012 , 09:00 PM
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Are there really not any buses or taxis in your country? How is not having a DL a problem?
Of course there are. Buses stop running at 11PM, and Taxis are ridiculously expensive. Assuming you're not from America. There are about 2 metro areas (New York and Chicago land) where you can get by without having a car. Go on POF and you'll see scores of chicks saying "no car, we can't be together". Not driving means no social life in most areas of America.
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12-14-2012 , 10:18 PM
Boston and San Fran too
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12-14-2012 , 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted by amazinmets73
BL, what's your opinion on girls with boyfriends? I personally am still going after them.
Dude forgetaboutit, your game is weak. Just go for the single girls. But if it helps you step out of your comfort zone...do it just for the lols no outcome dependence,gain some confidence.
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12-14-2012 , 10:54 PM
Here's a list of books that helped me:

A new earth and The power of now by Eckhart Tolle - Talks about being in the
moment, letting go of the past and problems.

Mastery by George Leonard - Talks about plateaus while learning a skill, and why you should embrace them.

Awaken the giant within by Tony Robbins- Talks about positivity and how to have necessary inner game for picking up girls


7 habits of highly effective people by Stephen R. Covey - Talks about how to understand people, and to communicated effectively with them, and get what you want and to proactively work in your circle of influence.

The way of the superior man by David Deida - no explanation needed
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12-15-2012 , 02:24 AM
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Originally Posted by eastern motors
I'm already at a friend's house getting ready to go out tonight. She sent it at about 6pm. I guess ditching my friends is an option but not really my style

"My friends and I are going to Bar X. Should be fun. Meet me there. We'll have a blast."

Eastern, I really don't know why you are asking questions on what to do. She is practically asking you out for tonight. This couldn't be an easier lay-up for you. Yet you are all "what do I do?"

Honest answer: Give up. If you can't figure this out solo then you're sunk.
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