I'm not sure about hitting up a girl on Facebook or wait to see if I see her again. I think my chances of success is significantly lower over fb but it's guaranteed contact, but I think would ruin my chance if we do meet again

There's one that i just wanna hook up with. we have close connections but at the same time different groups, so only see a couple times a year. She's hasn't been single so never much been said and I hit up her older sister already. But heard she's on a dating site and my buddy got action, Im not on any so thinking just use fb or how do to use your buddy

Another one is a keeper. A buddy and i started goin to the bar recently so don't know if it's gonna keep goin, but he knows this girl and the group she's with. theyre goin to the after party and im signaling to buddy to get us the invite, This girl is the only prospect in the group but she's so hot it's worth goin just for the thought of a chance

It's in a bus, passing shrooms, bongs, and alcohol. Fun, but close quarters and a tight knit group, and her ex bf is there.I finally get 1 on 1 conversation goin with her in a circle of people but can't seal the deal. Just hinting hard give me your # and show me this place you're talking about

We leave i dont get the # but I tell buddy hook it up, he says ok, and we'll try n go to the place she's telling us about. This was last weekend but I was hoping to see her this weekend cause there was a good chance wed all see each other at a festival but didn't happen. So I'm thinking if I was gonna fb her the next day was my best shot, but waited hoping to see her this weekend, now that I didn't, fb seems like might be my only chance but a week later seems weak

I wouldn't do it,sounds really creepy or stalkerish to do it a week later.

But what do I know,I can't get internet interest as it is.

The nut low last night was hitting on two rather large baby mammas
(rated a 5.... together...)
buying them a drink and they ghosted on me in the middle of the conversation.

It was like they went all Hayden Christensen and "Jumper"

They were there,I was talking and then they weren't.

They were gone in a flash.

So that happened.

Point being...act faster next time.




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Great post. LOL at close minded people bashing you. I have learned that I don't enjoy being monogamous so I will remain single until I find an amazing woman interested in an open relationship. Variety is the spice of life. To each his/her own.

After a long hiatus, I'm back on Tinder. I got coffee and went for a walk with a girl this weekend. It was a good time but we clearly didn't have much in common and I wasn't attracted her.

She's texting me and wants to hang out again. What's the etiquette? Do I tell her I'm not interested or is it cool to just not respond. I feel bad ignoring her but I also started to write a rejection text and felt bad shooting her down.

A polite, it was nice to meet you but I didn't feel any chemistry, best of luck text seems kinder to me than no response.

Thanks man, I came to that realization as I typed the last sentence of my post.

I've both ghosted and sent the rejection text. I felt like a dick after doing both. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. But I think the rejection text is the proper thing to do. I've never had a girl spaz out to a rejection the way you sometimes hear about guys doing.

Would you prefer to be ghosted on, or get a civil rejection?

Then you have your answer.

I've been out with a few people that talked about how much they hate being ghosted on, then ghosted on me anyway

If you've literally been on one dating sans physical contact ghosting is fine imo. "I had a good time too but I didn't feel any romantic chemistry" is fine as well. The latter is more polite imo & I use it as long as I liked the person.

Don't ghost, you'll feel better.

Definitely don't ghost. There's no way it's "fine".

I just did a ~2 hour interview on my experience using Tinder and other dating sites/app for this dude's dissertation. Hilarious to think that the wu bathroom trick might get published in an academic journal of some sort.

What is this trick?

Walk a girl home after the date. Ask the girl if you can come in to use her bathroom. If she says yes, you can make a move after you do. Could work with a girl who is interested but not forward enough to just invite you up/in.

Bobbo: that "move" definitely pre-dates online dating.

Chief: how old are you?

Gotcha. I was using this in 1991.

I think ghosting is the way to go. I've had a girl tell after a date she wasn't interested..... I would have like ghosting more (especially since I wasn't into
Her and just said I had a good time to be nice).

Gf and I from tinder just broke up. Back on the grind! And already got some
#s. Feel tinder is so easy if you are decent looking, can write an interesting profile, and just know basic ****. Dating is the only difficult part imo.

Back to ghosting, a lot of hot girls ghost me. Don't feel bad ghosting a girl you don't like. I do it all the time. Prolly to high % of girls I find either boring or not attractive.

Eye, not a dating question by any means, but Im just wondering... how come you never put a space after a comma? Ever?

That has to cost you at least a few dating app replies over the course of a year

I'm just lazy I guess😊
Or don't want to waste space.

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So being somewhat new to the online variety of dating, I had yet to come across a profile of a girl who is just straight up DTF. Until yesterday that is. And I'm reading her profile (OKC) and on the "I'm really good at" section it read "Ask and I just may tell you "

So, of course, I inquire. Her response was, "I'm really good with my mouth... But I let the ones that get the opportunity to test it out make their own judgement of that."

Girl is probably about a 5/10 fwiw.

What's your play?

Fistbump snap imo

-Get head
-If she's not fos, call her again
-See #1
-Ez game

I mean, like how forward in your response are you in this situation? I mean do you come back with "so when am I getting the opportunity?" Or do you play it cool and proceed like you would with any standard non-DTF chick?

How sick would a girl be for you to avoid kissing her? I've been out with this girl twice this past week (hiking and dinner), but she's been admittedly/visibly sick (took 2 days off of work this week, looked great each time but last night she was running to get more tissues from the bathroom every 15 minutes). It didn't matter to me in a relationship, but this is a first for me early on. I'm not happy with myself not making a move last night, but everything else seemed to go well.