Going to Vegas with some friends in 6 weeks. My bartender friend talked me into it. Got ****ty drunk with me and basically said if i go there's a good possibility that I could have a 3 some with her and her friend. I've never done that but my first thought was "great I can leave two girls unsatisfied" lol

I'm not counting on it happening but if it does I'll be sure to give a trip report. I've heard it's overrated though.....

is this the same girl you said you just got off for the first time and you weren't even sure if she orgasms?
If it is, seems like maybe not so great?
Ha, well for her at least. Guess it could still be great for you (been in that spot before, not going to lie).

Yep, same girl!

You could be right, but at the same time sex can be great for women even sans orgasm (as Sgt. has alluded to lately) and I think this is the case for her. She's never orgasmed with a guy before and was genuinely super excited just to have a mild one with me last time.

Also, not to toot my own horn, but I get rave reviews especially from women who prefer gentler sex (like this girl). I've had 2 ex's who admitted that they've had trouble finding a decent partner and really miss sex with me. Of course every guy thinks he's great in bed, but I spent a ton of time studying and honing my craft and take pride in my talents. Sure you have to take feedback from a current gf or current partners with a grain of salt, but it's the positive comments from the ex's and old FWBs who have no reason to butter me up that provide the most reassurance.

I posted about some of the materials I read that really helped me out awhile back. Mostly I think it's more the combo of understanding how women think and get turned on differently than men coupled with practicing yoga/meditation regularly and being more in shape (yoga is great for sexual performance) and in touch with myself rather than any techniques or technical stuff which was important for me.

Is girls wearing dirndls in tinder pics a global thing now, or just a European phenomenon ?

Not complaining, its adorable

Haven't seen a dirndl pic yet in France.

I imagine if you do it will cause flashbacks and public panic.


Or outright surrender.

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So I may be missing something , but why does bumble remind guys that a match is about to expire?

Because you (as a guy) have one 24 hour extension of a match per day.

(G) spot on!

fossil -- can you expand some on the yoga you're doing that seems helpful? seems like an easy enough practice to get in to with good rewards, ya?

It really depends on what type of yoga appeals from you. The level of physicality can range from almost entirely passive, stretching poses (yin, restorative, or gentle yoga) to extremely physically demanding with some of the advanced power or hatha yoga classes, and everything in between.

Most of the most common yoga poses (chair, crescent, warrior 1/2, etc.) will do a great job by default of strengthening the glutes, core, upper legs and stretching the hips/legs which creates better circulation in that region. The increased flexibility is also great in the bedroom for feeling more comfortable in certain positions or creating different angles in certain positions.

For me personally, yoga is my main form of fitness, so I tend to choose intense power yoga classes with a lot of strengthening poses and a lot of fast-paced flows to build stamina. The teacher is also extremely important. I've taken classes from some teachers who probably would have turned me off to yoga altogether if they had been my first experience. OTOH, I feel like almost everyone would enjoy yoga if they find the right teacher/class combo for them. At the moment, I haven't really found a teacher I like in France, so I've been streaming classes online, there are tons of great sites for this. But to start off, it's better to find a good teacher to correct any alignment errors before practicing on your own.

Finally, anyone who's even mildly interested in sexual performance/pleasure (man or woman) should have a regular Kegel practice. You don't even have to invest any extra time, it can be done discreetly at the same time you're watching TV or browsing 2p2.

I used to have success on POF before they introduced buying tokens to send a priority message. I've refused to indulge, and have zero messages and zero views to show for it. Looks like it will indeed take some tokens.

Right, but not "nice guy" tokens. Just regular tokens.

I had an old POF date hit me up out of nowhere last week. She was really flirty right off the bat so I decided wth and asked her over for dinner. She said sure. I cooked us a nice dinner tonight.

My roommates were freaking out lol because she's really hot. She's about 5'5 115 pounds. She was wearing a shorter skirt and heels nice blouse. Just killing it. I acted cool like she looked alright but I wasn't kissing her ass.

Anyway I'm lucky I have a protective cover on my mattress. She's a squirter. Soaked the bed. She's very easy to get off. Not sure how many times she got off but it was lots. Love when I can hook a girl up like that. Perfect body. Athletic build but just the right amount of wiggle in her butt.

Only thing that sucks is she is asleep in my bed right now. Not sure I wanted her to spend the night. I never know how to ask them to leave. Lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAhWmxRlG4M

Yeah I'm naturally to nice to do this. I'm actually a nice guy (well kind of) pretending to be casually indifferent. It's why I probably don't pull as many hot of girls as I could. From reading this thread and other stuff on the internet I have gotten better.

Chicks are getting hotter though and I think the fact that I've been dating 2-4 at a time is indirectly helping me appear more attractive to them because I'm not available all the time. I don't immediately text them back. Sometimes I forget to text them so they are the last one to text a lot of times. They'll say something funny and I'll forget to reply.

This isn't a brag either because except for my GF and the current girl(hot body but face isn't great) I just had sex with most aren't super hot or anything.

Girl 1 (ex GF) - Comes over about once every two weeks because she just can't stand it anymore and ****s me. I give it to her just like she likes it too. She then tells me she hates me and leaves. Rinse/Repeat She'll find someone eventually and I'll won't hear from her for a while. Very few people can out her in her place in bed but for whatever reason I seem to be able to.

Girl 2 - I met her on Tinder. Every Tue and sometimes Wed she comes over and we watch a movie or play cards with my roommate and his GF. A little thicker but in the right spots. My roommate thinks she's pretty. Terrible in bed but she lets me bang her 2-3 times a night. I can just nicely wake her up and bang whenever I want then go back to sleep.

Girl 3 - Hot athletic body. Face is meh. Just came over last night. I've known her for 2 years. We had a weird experience 2 years ago where right as I was about to pull her pants off and go down on her she said she couldn't do it. At the time I just felt she wasn't sexual enough for me so basically blew her off after that. I was wrong. She just wasn't ready. She clearly is now. Pretty amazing in bed. Cums and squirts all over the place. Going to do lots dirty things to her.

Girl 4 - I've been on one date with this one. She also came over for the final four games. We got drunk and I went for it. She said no but maybe next time kind of. She's tiny. No boobs at all. I like her body and she has nice smile. Said she's bi. Smokes pot. Not sure anything is going to come of it but I'm going to go out on one more date with her Monday night. Don't plan to ask her back to my place. Just going to have fun and try to escalate the situation there a little then go home. If it works out well I'll ask over to my place Wed night or go to hers.

Also have a date set up with a girl from POF on Sunday. She is separated not divorced. Looks a little thicker but might be the type of girl that just wants to ****. If she does and she's not huge I'm down.

Also I'm not sure if my posts are even interesting to any of you guys. I'm not very good at this and won't be teaching most of you guys anything new. I just thought that this "juggling 3+ women" might be fun to post about in here. I was texting 3 of them at the same time going home from work Thursday. None of these women know about each other and if I get caught I'm just going to shrug it off and find new girls. Until I find one I really like.

Anyway if I'm tarding the thread up please let me know and I'll stop. Haha

No worries - keep posting. I like reading the long stuff (Fossil's too). Sure beats r/okcupid and r/tinder

Juggling multiple women is annoying I'm finding. Particularly when none of them appear to be long term prospects. Having said that, I'm supposed to meet two different ones tonight, further solidifying the Malucci is an idiot argument.

Yeah,juggling women is great when you are young cause it's a challenge and a chance to brag about it to your friends.

And usually has a spectacularly horrible ending that sometimes has a good story attached.

But I do like the updates,I live vicariously through some of them.

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I'm enjoying the updates water, keep them coming.

I'm a bit the same where I'm "too nice" and try to come off indifferent, but I usually don't pull it off unless I have a rotation of a couple girls going which is the case now. I was getting real bad one-itis when I arrived in Lyon because I didn't have a ton of options, but now it's not so bad.

Had an interesting date last night. 3rd time meeting the girl but she called me on the phone a lot, like every night, too much in fact. Anyway we go to a fairly upmarket restaurant on the outskirts of town, which she booked and offer to pay for as a birthday gift. She's ok, nice looking, smart but kinda rude and negative.

Anyway we're there about an hour and after we eat the guy beside us started talking to me, we're talking away, his wife is in the convo' just shooting the breeze. It's going on for maybe 20 mins and my date calls me a dick, right in the middle of the conversation, guy I'm talking to tells her that that's pretty rude, I say NBD. 5 mins later she does it again, and then again 5 mins later. Anyway, check comes, I pay cause just fk it, went outside and she said 'where now' I say, 'casino for me I dont care where you go' and get a cab leaving her at the side of the road.

She txt'd me this morning calling me a dick again and said I left her out of the convo' (kinda true but we had all night to talk) and still claiming that she's in the right and I wasn't paying her enough attention... thoughts?

My personal feeling is that she could have given me a kick under the table or grabbed my hands to get me to focus on her but defo not start calling me a dick and think it's ok.

wba,

Just based on your description it sounds like she was 100% in the right and I'm flabbergasted you started talking to random people for 20 (!!!) minutes while on a date.

You sounded super rude and *******ish after the dinner, too.

Yeah you were dickish but she didn't handle it well either.
Should've took her home and banged her when she asked"what now"


Would be totally alpha.

But seriously,for that length of time and on a date,bad form

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Yeah, agree with both, I'd kinda had enough by the end of her grunting names at me under and not under her breath. I have a bad habit of talking to random people for ages while im on dates, need to focus more!

Wanna,


That. You sound like a flaky space cadet.