So not all bad then.

Losing 15% of your protest group has got to hurt, no matter what the cause.

There are dozens of us!! DOZENS!!

Haha well done

everything about this post is amazing.

TR w the white rabbit.

So I haven't gone out on a date or thought about women since Februrary. Some broad caught my eye on OKC and we started chatting. Eventually it transitioned to text messages and I was sending her pictures of dead animals (2 pics, both with me in them. true but long story).

We met up at Billy Corrigan's tea house and had a nice chat. She realized I wasn't a serial killer. We walked in circles for like 10 miles because I was so focused on her and not really caring what we were doing. Eventually we made it down to the beach and back. I then took her out to dinner. Then she followed me home and I made her beg for it.

The last few dates I've been on, I've been asked about my roommate situation towards the end of the date. Tinder dates for context. None of the dates were headed in a "let's go back to my place" direction, but I suppose it could be a last-minute dealbreaker. Just curious since it's been the last 10 minutes of the date each time (fwiw, all the women in this context had roommates, and it doesn't matter to me). I have 1, live in a city with very high rent (as in a studio is min. $1500/mo not including utilities), and am never home other than to sleep really.

Seems like it would be a feeler question to judge where the hookup (if it was going to happen)
would happen.
Not necessarily that night,but for future reference?
It seems that would come up in the course of getting to know each other,not specifically at the end of the date unless it had gotten to the point of hookup,and only then to ask if the roommate was home.
Other than that ...?

I pretty much attempt to transition this into a hook-up 100% of the time. I don't have roommates however, so when in this spot I can comfortably say something like "why? do you want to go somewhere more private?"

Interesting approach...she also had 3 other photos, all of the top of her head.

Ugly people have to come up with a gimmick.

I sometimes put a 20 dollar bill stuck in a tub of chicken on my pics.

a/s/l?

40/M/Tex-OK

I attract black women in late 20s to mid 30s.

Or white women on drugs.

Dunno if I look young,but online,same age women avoid me.

So am I being unreasonable here?

Seeing this girl for 4 months. Broke up for a 2 week period. She had a guy friend (who she had sex with 20 years ago once) who was having martial problems stayed at her house for a night. She says nothing happened but she wanted to be up front with me. He texts her a week later and asks her if she wants to go out and get a drink which sparks a discussion where I told her we were broke up so there really is no reason for me to be upset but I have a hard time believing that nothing happen. She gets super defensive and flips out.......says I'm being unreasonable.

I mean doesn't he have some beer buddy house he can crash at? Am I being dumb or is it odd that the first person he runs to is her when he's having martial problems?

I can see why that guy has marital problems.

Yeah I wouldn't have been upset if she had just told me she banged him. We were not together at the time. She is acting shocked that I would find it odd. She says they have been friends for 20 years and have never had sex again. My spidey sense is going crazy because she got so defensive......

They have def hooked up recently.
A guy immediately running to a woman's house during marital problems is not normal, unless they are more than just friends.
However, you should forgive her and tell you how bad you feel for implying she would sleep with a married man, so that you can have some makeup sex, then kick her out of bed and be done with her for good.
Shes a lying whore.

Damn I really like this girl. She's smart, hot, enjoys a lot of the same **** I do, and is the best lay ever. Unbelievable. I gave her an out to. I told her it didn't matter if she did because we were broke up at the time.

Sigh.......

So you're deciding the future of your relationship based on a cs3 post?

Im not understanding the time line.
Did you get back together with her after the 2 week break up? Or are you trying to work things out now?
Jusy my opnion, but if she was banging the guy while you were broken up, its fairly likely she was also banging him while you were with her. And will prob continue to bang him if you get back with her.
I mean, even if she didn't **** him (which is hard to believe) she obv doesnt value other people's relationships if shes having married men spend the night at her place. And if she doesnt value other peoples relationships at all, how is she going to value one that shes in herself?

No I've ask 3 of my closest friends. So it's 2-1 right now and she ain't winning. It's just really hard to believe that nothing happened. One of my friends thinks she is just trying to make me aware that there other guys out there that want her but she has chosen me. He says I should give her the benefit of the doubt because if she is lying then she will lie again in the future and I'll figure it out. The other 2 say it's hard to believe that she didn't bang him.

What freaks me out is she got so defensive when I asked her again. There's other stuff that makes me feel like she did it but she's right when she says I have no reason not to believe her.

We were broken up when the guy stayed over at her place. We got back together and I told her I had a date the next day that I wasn't going to cancel because I would be canceling last minute and nothing was going to happen. She said ok but I was going white water rafting and had already set it all up and the girl was driving from Denver the next day. I didn't want to feel stupid canceling last minute. We went nothing happen and she went her way and I went my way. She texted me a day after and I never returned the text and I haven't heard from her since.

When I was honest and told her that she said "since we are disclosing everything her my friend was having problems with his wife so he called and asked if he could stay at my place so I let him last week but nothing happen". Then she told me their story and they had slept together 20 years ago but not since. At least that's her story.

Something definitely does not feel right with her story.
Either way, if you already dont trust what she tells you now, then its probably going to get worse in the future.

Little doubt in my mind that she really likes you and is mostly offended that you're not more pissed off and jealous about her story. She sounds too cray though.

Why did you break up for two weeks in the first place?

Also, why is she telling you that a guy stayed at her house but she didn't bang him? If she banged him do you think she is telling you about him staying there? Probably not if she's as smart as she's led you to believe she is at this point.