Online dating thread - Page 1192 - Other Topics Forum - Discuss Pop Culture, Arts and Entertainment

girl gets a message from me on sunday and waits until friday afternoon to respond.

does she want me to reply now and ask her out for a weekend date, or wait some number of days to reply?

Quote

07-25-2014 , 04:01 PM

#29777

slipslope

banned

Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,407

Cmon, either she will or she won't.

Quote

07-25-2014 , 04:19 PM

#29778

Kenny Bania

adept

Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 978

Don't ask her out on the weekend date. My guess is that she probably always takes a while to respond. If you ask her out, she might not get it until after the proposed date evening has already passed. So it doesn't matter if you respond now or wait a day, but just send a normal message keeping the convo going (or maybe ask for a weekday date next week if you have sent a few messages already and are at that point).

Quote

07-25-2014 , 04:20 PM

#29779

TrustyRombone

banned

Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 1,051

weekday date...no pressure...that sounds clutch.

her responses vary in timing, sometimes within the hour, sometimes up to a week.

Quote

07-25-2014 , 06:33 PM

#29780

amazinmets73

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,555

Quote:

Originally Posted by cannabusto

It's good they're insecure?

Of course. The lower their self esteem the easier it is to have sex with them

Quote

07-25-2014 , 06:48 PM

#29781

Duke0424

self-banned

Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 13,362

Quote:

Originally Posted by amazinmets73

Of course. The lower their self esteem the easier it is to have sex with them

Lol wow

Quote

07-25-2014 , 06:59 PM

#29782

LolPony

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 4,126

Man I'm 25 and having wayyyyy more luck with 30+ than girls my own age. 2 dates this week, 36 and 38. And way more responses compared to the two or three from girls my age. Send a few messages then ask them out. Guess they just know what they want instead of trying to message 50 times then text for a few days.

Anyone else try messaging out of their age range?

Quote

07-25-2014 , 07:04 PM

#29783

cannabusto

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 4,876

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duke0424

Lol wow

Pretty sure amazin is being sarcastic but I that was the impression I got from the original post.

Quote

07-25-2014 , 07:08 PM

#29784

Mrlooker

centurion

Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 106

Quote:

Originally Posted by LolPony

Exactly same and am 26. I had a few openers from 30 year olds who seemed nice and were flirty.

I get nothing from people my age or a few years younger. They don't open and don't respond.

Quote

07-25-2014 , 07:31 PM

#29785

Duke0424

self-banned

Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 13,362

Good to know it'll get better for me in a few years.. I hope

Quote

07-25-2014 , 07:32 PM

#29786

LT22

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 12,842

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mrlooker

Exactly same and am 26. I had a few openers from 30 year olds who seemed nice and were flirty.

I get nothing from people my age or a few years younger. They don't open and don't respond.

Supply and demand.

Interestingly I've only gone on dates with girls younger than me. All 24-25 years old; very narrow range. I didn't plan that it just naturally occurred. I was 27 years old for majority of my online dating.

Quote

07-25-2014 , 09:08 PM

#29787

bobboufl11

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,329

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duke0424

Good to know it'll get better for me in a few years.. I hope

Single guys always bitch about 30. I'm thinkin it's gonna be a big party.

Quote

07-26-2014 , 04:31 AM

#29788

CHRONICFEVER

Goes hard in the paint

Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 13,449

a bit ot but i was with this girl who was totally in love with me and was really great, things are going great until she opens up to me on my way back to ny that she had done porn in the past I said was ok with it but as soon as i came back to ny i saw the videos and I snap broke up with her.
so question is would you guys ever date/ commit to a porn star?

Quote

07-26-2014 , 04:33 AM

#29789

housenuts

1st Quartiled the 500

Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 49,685

Would be real tough. Probably not at this age because I could never see myself marrying them

Quote

07-26-2014 , 06:02 AM

#29790

ligastar

ToP 100 pAsS cAtChErS

Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 30,919

Quote:

Originally Posted by CHRONICFEVER

what kind of porn are we talking about here?

Quote

07-26-2014 , 06:41 AM

#29791

Mrlooker

centurion

Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 106

Tough spot, more drama than you need a girl who has porn background for me.

Was she good in bed?

Quote

07-26-2014 , 07:34 AM

#29792

CHRONICFEVER

Goes hard in the paint

Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 13,449

Quote:

Originally Posted by ligastar

what kind of porn are we talking about here?

Straight ccouple stuff , no black guys lol

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mrlooker

Tough spot, more drama than you need a girl who has porn background for me.

Was she good in bed?

Yes she was probably the best I ever been with

Quote

07-26-2014 , 09:12 AM

#29793

splashpot

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 8,203

Link?

Quote

07-26-2014 , 10:17 AM

#29794

ligastar

ToP 100 pAsS cAtChErS

Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 30,919

Quote:

Originally Posted by CHRONICFEVER

Straight ccouple stuff , no black guys lol

Yes she was probably the best I ever been with

you wouldn't be with a woman that was with a black guy in her past?

regarding your question, i don't think straight porn would be a deal breaker for me ... obv other things to look at with the girl though

Quote

07-26-2014 , 10:42 AM

#29795

horVeech

grinder

Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 459

Lol are u drunk? We all know what he meant...

Sent from my PAP3400DUO using 2+2 Forums

Quote

07-26-2014 , 11:47 AM

#29796

ChipWrecked

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 13,006

wtf did you 'snap break up' for? Were you not into her anyway?

Because if you were, and she was willing to tell and show you...

Frankly sounds like a you problem to me.

Quote

07-26-2014 , 12:24 PM

#29797

amazinmets73

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,555

Quote:

Originally Posted by horVeech

Lol are u drunk? We all know what he meant...

Sent from my PAP3400DUO using 2+2 Forums

Really? I didn't

Quote

07-26-2014 , 12:53 PM

#29798

Hoagie

name is based on sandwich

Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 6,468

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChipWrecked

wtf did you 'snap break up' for? Were you not into her anyway?

Because if you were, and she was willing to tell and show you...

Frankly sounds like a you problem to me.

Being a porn actress is kind of a legitimate deal breaker iyam.

Quote

07-26-2014 , 01:09 PM

#29799

swag_check

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 4,425

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChipWrecked

wtf did you 'snap break up' for? Were you not into her anyway?

Because if you were, and she was willing to tell and show you...

Frankly sounds like a you problem to me.

+1

and I too don't really get the "no black guys lol" part you decided to include given all the different types of porn out there