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Originally Posted by DMACM
Story cheered me up. I can't imagine why you'd want to get rid of this guy. Seems way more likely that hes gay than "scared of the unknown." That makes no sense to me at all.
No. Being bad with women is not evidence of being gay. Imagine that you are a 26 year old virgin. Think about how easy it would be to build up your virginity in your mind as a huge problem. This is due to the way getting laid is connected to social status in our society. Witness the OP's attitude about his friend's virginity, which really doesn't affect him at all, as an example of how important it can be. The fact that it is seen as such a problem makes it difficult to act naturally and smoothly.
Now imagine the anxiety that you might feel as you get close to sealing the deal with a girl for the first time. You are 26 and will be expected to have significant sexual experience and to perform accordingly, but it's almost a lock that you won't be able to. This could reveal your status as "loser." It makes perfect sense to be scared in that situation.
There's no reason to suspect he's gay without evidence (e.g. femininity, finding gay porn on his computer, etc.)