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Originally Posted by frostbrn
Wow, I guess maybe I do need a reality check or something. I don't think this type of thing will happen again (it was an isolated incident, nothing close to it has happened before). Do I really just have to swallow my pride on this one and take the hit to my leadership role at the business?
I think you may have some issue with leadership and perception of you by others. Leadership isn't established or lost from one incident; it's the cumulative effect of a stream of incidents.
Let me turn this on you: do you think you handled the situation in an ideal way? I get the feeling that you may not think it was ideal, but that given the situation, it was okay.
I can tell you that most people would perceive you losing your cool and storming out of the store as the sort of rash decision that leaders never do. I don't think that means you'll never be a strong leader, but you won't be one right now. Strong leaders don't need to reinforce that they're leaders, or even concern themselves with "looking like a leader". There's something else driving this, some fear of something.