Come on, he needs encouragement, not this crap.

elaborate level tho?

Someday somehow she will find this thread, and she will be either smiling fondly of how much you cared when you asked her out or feeling relieved for avoiding such a loser that can't even try.

Everyone else will think you are a loser either way.

Everyone is cheering for you or getting tilted. GO BOY, FORZA!

Ask her is she's mad at you or her period.

so you think she went over to his place to sh*t? that seems strange.

Angry doesn't mean lack of interest, sometimes you keep escalating the discussion and then switch for recognition/praise and start making out.

Love and hate probably aren't opposites from my research with sociopath behavior, would be unlikely that didn't had only one range of the spectrum, and this doesn't belong in this thread...

after a week off i had fooled myself into thinking some miracle may have happened. Nope.

I've been playing hypothetical situations in my mind over and over again and it's driving me crazy. I've replayed the events of that night in my mind hundreds of times and it's getting pretty pathetic. The more I think about it, the more I realize that I was just scared. I remember at one point I thought to myself, "Oh **** I didn't even trim my pubes. She'd be so grossed out by my huge bush."

She hasn't texted me or called me since that one night. And whenever I see her at lunch it's like she's got zero desire to even flirt or small talk. It's as if she's told herself, "**** that guy. I'm never hanging out with him again."

I'm trying not to think about it because it's messing with my head and making me feel like I really missed out. But it's really hard. I remember hearing about some guy in England who had a lucky set of numbers and used it for a lottery ticket every week for many many years. Then the one week he forgot, his numbers hit. And then he killed himself. I don't know if this story is true, but if it is, this close call the other night makes me feel that way. I've never ever had a girl right their in my room before, especially one so smart and good-looking.

I know I sound gloomy, but I was having trouble going to sleep so I came here to vent. I don't go around acting all gloomy like a tool though. My roommates and co-workers all think I'm just happy-go-lucky and have no idea how torn up I am about it. I'll get through this though. I don't wanna let you guys down. You've all been helpful. So I'm gonna try boning one of the less attractive girls in the internship program. I think most of them are virgins (played never-have-I-ever a few weeks ago) so that could be interesting if it actually happened. Just two morons flopping around on my twin size mattress. Which just sits on my floor without a box spring btw. Three thrusts and a shiver most likely. And if it's anything like my porn sessions, subsequent feelings of intense shame and self-loathing.

chaos theory tho

Jesus man, if she came over your house and wanted to hook up she obviously has interest in you. Just because she was put off by you not making a move doesn't mean all hope is lost. Just straight up ask her out and chances are if she was seriously interested in you at any point she'd accept. You're making this **** way too complicated.

youre mental perception of events is most likely shadowing the reality of how she is acting

if you are looking for negative reaction you can find one pretty easily



just go and ask her out on a date with no ambiguity next time you see her.



in fact, id probably call her out if you are sure she's been different


"Hey X. Seems like you have been acting different since the other night when you came over at 3AM... is everything alright?"

Her: Yeah im fine

"Ok cool. How bout you and me go out this Friday for dinner and drinks- if you think you can handle alcohol again"

Her: OK and lets actually **** afterwards

"Nah lets do it in the breakroom"


obv the end of that is a troll but you should still ask her out.




and if she says she has been acting differently, you have a nice segue

"Well let me make it up to you. Dinner and drinks Friday?

^

All is not lost. Ask her out, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Think of it like this - she's already acting different, and you don't think she's that into you anymore, what do you have to lose? If she says no, nothing changes, if she says yes - ship it.