Grunch: what the actual...

SHE made HER choice when she got engaged to "not you."

...if that doesn't make sense...offer to buy her off her Father or nearest male relation.

Lol

No shes not

You must have missed the part where HE proposed to her.

This is terrible advice OP do not do this under any circumstances.

+1

grunching,

You gotta let this one go. She's engaged, sorry. Real life isnt the movies, you arent going to let her know you are in love with her, and she leaves her not right for her fiancee for you, and you guys live happily ever after and the audience cheers.

Best case is she just lets it all slide and pretends your confesion never happened, worst case is a massive pile of **** that someone who claims to be career focused would never inflict upon their goals.

Also, some of the things you said make me think you arent very experienced with women and Id suggest you change your thinking from "hmm, I think shes into me" to "Shes really nice to me because shes a nice person and im good at my job"

Noone gets Kristy's jokes

I agree. Buying her from her dad is offensive. Instead offer 3 cows in trade.

Let's see:

1) She is a co-worker.
2) She is engaged to someone else.
3) If you need a third reason, read 1 and 2 again.

You can't give her up.

OP is expecting this

https://youtu.be/MFRe7mEEdaM

Watching the office much?

Defiantly tru.

jfc

lol

It's common to become attracted to people you spend a lot of time around; it's also common for attraction to be a one-way street. I've been in similar situations and I can empathize. Sorry man, but it sounds like she's just not that into you. Do you two ever interact outside of work?

Go for it, like the ending of Caddyshack.

Life's too short man! She could be about to start a thread asking for advice on breaking off her engagement for a genius from work. Good luck whatever you choose.

Ben,

Congratulations on making a female friend. Many people on this forum don't believe it's possible to have a friend of the opposite sex, but we both know that's wrong. Don't conflate friendship with romance -- your friend isn't.

Does anyone else keep reading this as "go after enraged girl"?

I actually stopped reading after he used the wrong "whose" right at the start, but then there weren't really any other threads that interested me so I kept going. I didn't actually read to the end, though?

OP,
Just to clarify, you are not even "giving her up".
You never had her in the first place and in all likelihood you never would have had her under any circumstances.

I mean do you think shes been in love with this whole time, and has just been waiting for you to declare your love for her all along?
Well, she hasn't.

Pretty sure by "give her up" he meant to give up the thoughts of pursuing her. You may be searching a bit thin for a new MLY poster to rip apart, imo.