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Originally Posted by Jkpoker10
Wouldn't it be ****ed up on 1st date to discuss that? I normally am always 100% fine with paying first few dates before we are serious. I generally don't take girls out for dinner thought on first few dates.
This is sensible, and changes a lot of what i didnt understand what you're thinking
I think of it as taking the girl and taking implies paying
I do think a girl offering to pay is attractive but a plus not a deal breaker. I only take it as a compliment and id offer or insist to pay, depending if it's drink or dinner, early on date or a relationship
Personally, I feel if it's irritating to pay for her she's not the one. so wouldn't have a discussion about it early with the next one when she might completely change that for you and you want to buy her a lot more than dinner. Good luck