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Originally Posted by lapka
What else do you have to offer?
Things I personally would always prefer over going out to dinner:
cooking dinner together, picnicking, movies, concerts, nature, nice view, working-out together, dancing (huge attractiveness point if a guy can dance well), good sex (emphasis is on "good").
Just to keep it balanced ...and confusing...i like almost none of those things.
Especially guys who are good dancers. They creep me out.
Stay out of my kitchen. Picnics aren't all that comfortable or great; I'd prefer to sit at a table. Movie theaters are over-priced and not as comfortable as my living room. Concerts are loud and awkward with someone you don't know well. I dont really want to see you work out, and I certainly wouldn't want you to see me...feels a little "How the sausage is made"
So yeah...haters gonna hate, and this whole formulaic approach to dating that some of the men itt are trying to lock down is kinda silly.
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Originally Posted by LektorAJ
Because a marriage based on modern values has literally no benefits for the man.
False.
It has
less benefits for man, but is still an overall net gain.
Quick example: Man takes kids out. "Oh you're babysitting. You're so amazing for giving your wife time off!!"
Marriage is usually a loss for women, not men.