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Originally Posted by suzzer99
Then they take me off in another room with a guy who I just thought was there to fill out my paperwork. Now I'm to paying $500 just to turn on the freaking alarm system, and another $700 in gap insurance
Gap insurance guy in the other room gets a lot of people. They got me on my first new car too.
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Originally Posted by borg32
your goal when negotiating with a car dealer should be to make them hang themselves in their office since they are so frustrated dealing with you
It definitely doesn't hurt to be confrontational and stress them out a bit. I don't mean raging obnoxious, but I do mean come in borderline unreasonable. Things go better when the salesman's frustrated and the manager is trying to talk you up to a sane price (rather than you bargaining them down). This isn't how I like to conduct negotiations, certainly not professionally, but dealerships are a special animal. Dealership people tend to act more aggro than they typically are because they're trained that way. Many don't enjoy dealing with difficult/confrontational people themselves.
More than that you need to walk off a few dealerships. It's standard advice to shop around but a lot of people don't take that seriously enough. After ~3 you have a good idea of what their best offers look like. I start at the dealerships furthest from me and save the closest two for last. Back and forth once or twice and it's done. In fact last time I just called the Online Sales managers from the last two and threw a number at them and asked if they could do it..."we need you to come in." "No, I'm looking to buy a car today and don't feel like wasting another two hours and a another drive - can you do $X OTD today on Y car? I'll be using dealer financing for the rebate and will qualify, no trade in."
The stress lessens as you go. The first few places you exist to piss people off. All you want is the best offer you can get as you're walking off the floor. By the end you've got a lock on the price you should pay or close enough.
Where I could do better is spending some time to figure out what some of the fees are, as in which are legit and which aren't. But this is somewhat marginalized when you go for an OTD price. If one dealership charges a $280 advertising fee and the next charges $400, the latter needs to make that up somewhere to stay in it.