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Originally Posted by dw2006
Just out of curiosity, if you are comfortable sharing, what happened to you dad?
He contracted a blood infection that attacked his spinal cord and disintegrated some vertebrae. At one point he was looking at having a 10 percent chance of living, and he eventually was upgraded to being a quad on a respirator for the rest of his life, and he has currently progressed since then to developing bicep and tricep strength and being able to stand up and slowly ride a bike for a few minutes a day with the assistance of machines. He still can't eat on his own and can't drink anything beyond water or black coffee and still requires a small amount of oxygen at night while he sleeps, but he has made massive progress far beyond what was ever expected of him. Theres a meeting on may 6th in which we discuss what the long term expectations are with his doctor, but in the meantime i am going to contact his insurance company (i have full POA) and if an at fault accident in his vehicle comes off his insurance, the no car roommate will be permanently cut off.
To answer some recent questions, the no car roommate is a super good friend who i don't mind helping out to an extent, but when i get to the point where i feel my generosity is being abused with no benefit to me, i have to do something. he has no desire to buy a car until he is done school and working full time. i tried to help him by selling my car for way under book value, but he can't afford the cash purchase or the solo insurance payment every month.