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Originally Posted by TBadr
Really? it's infinitely better to end it on good terms with a person that after sharing 3 years of their life with you does this?
I wouldn't try to be considerate to a person THIS selfish iyam. Forget trying to end it on good terms, how about ending things on HIS terms? again, that doesn't necessarily mean going psycho.
Oh, everything I said was for his self-interest and I gave 0 consideration to the girl. Like ok, think how he'll be in 3months time if:
a) he totally cuts contact and has no closure or spends a ton of time and energy to hurt her back
b) they talk it over, they both understand each other/what happened and they leave with atleast some amount of gratitude for what they had together
I mean if option a) is what OP wants then go ahead but I can't see how option b) can be bad or shouldn't be considered
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Originally Posted by THAY3R
I like. Make a facebook post for her "Girlfriend is... Cheating on my boyfriend with a married father!"
I think this is dangerous. No one cares, her friends don't care, her family probably won't care too much. It'll be really obv it's you (or she'll just tell everyone it was you) so the few people who will care will be massively outweighted by you looking like a total freak. Trying to convince someone's friends that they're evil because of something that happened to you and not them just doesn't work.