have sex with dids

I wouldn't feel sorry for him either and I think people arguing OP should mind his own business are comical. This is his business now. I just don't see it as a revenge thing which is just a dispute over classification. The reason OP shouldn't strike back is personal self-interest. I don't think he can do it without coming off as crazy thus doing more damage to himself. A second reason is that if you choose to **** with someone then you have to seriously **** with them. Way more than just telling his wife on him. Again I don't think OP is capable of this.

I am calling KKF on this one...

But to respond to the scenario, I think you gotta tell the other dude's wife. Who know who else he is sleeping around and what kind of junk he is bringing back to the wife. Especially with a wife who, assumedly, is getting raw dogged by her hubby. I'd wanna know if I were in her situation.

Yah no, I'm not doing it to save his wife. I'm doing it because **** him.

Is your girlfriend shagging Wayne Rooney?

It's been stated many times. It's clearly A. you presumably have the same friends, social circle etc. If you take the highest of high roads, you still come off as decent guy, of high character to other potential sloots, and your friends, social circle, etc. will still find out that she's a cheating whore when they inevitably ask why you guys broke up. living well ftw imo.

you dont know whether or not she reads the forums?

in any case, who cares. why are you still trying to protect her is the question. even still, if she reads the forums itll be all be obvious anyways, if your details are true.

I would tell dudes wife then bang her.

DO NOT tell her parents that will only make you look pathetic. Her parent's aren't going to care one way or another. They may actually insult you for being so pathetic since you felt the need to tell her mommy and daddy on her.

Seriously just pack up and bounce when she's not home. I would log onto all her e-mails/FB and put the pics she sent dude on here computer and leave then up so when she came home she would have no wonders why you left. And you letting his wife know so hopefully she leaves him and gets all his **** in the divorce.

Alimony/Divorce Attorney's fees and Child Support suck.

**** Him.

And post pics of her. So what if she see's them are you worried about hurting her feelings?

You should post the naked pics of her on her FB page.

Since when did this turn into BBV4l?

All you idiots foaming at the mouth for pics should use this internetulator you've got to find some naked girls, there's lots of them and they probably look better than the OP's girl anyway.

OP- break up with her, but don't get petty, don't get vindictive. If you are the better person here, keep it that way.

True about this not being 4L.

But **** that be vindictive.

What about somehow busting them in a way that they wouldn't guess it was you? It could be interesting watching her ****ing her pants while you play dumb.

Maybe in her emotionally distraught state she will seek comfort with you, and then you can dump her

Why is no one calling OP out for being a bitch?

Neither you being suspicious nor the fact that your fears were warranted in this case make it ok for you to have gone stealing passwords and snooping around in places she believed to be private. This is the kind of stuff that jealous, insecure girls do all the time and guys justifiably go ballistic when they find out. Total bitch move.

Something about this OP doesn't ring true, but regardless the answer to a situation like this is to walk away without demeaning yourself and giving up what's left of your dignity.

porn acting doesnt sell people as well as the real thing. quality of girl doesnt make up for believability.

anyways, i think people want to see what a girl who would cheat looks like. just like we like to see mugshots of criminals. thats what would interest me personally.

in terms of posting pics as vengeance, or doing other vengeful acts, im not so sure this is wrong. this whole being the better person thing only leads to people walking all over you in life. not to mention it would make the break up trip report for this thread way less exciting.

anyways, it is right that depending on how good of a person she is, the best vengence may be the high road. her guilt will drive her mad. so in a way, if this is the case, ironically its the "high road" to do petty things, and not vengefully impose such guilt and emotional pain.

more seriously, i dont think its so bad to let her know that she hurt you, however you choose to express that. people dont realize how powerful their actions are with respect to other people and she may need that wake up call.

LOL at thinking females have guilt when they cheat. She will find a reason to make it OP's fault and never sway from that train of thought.

Move your stuff out. Post ad on craigslist for free stuff left in apartment.

The combined force of the cast of the Jersey Shore, when faced with a mountain of coke, hasn't grasped at a straw as hard as you just did.

A girl that would cheat looks like...

Do a collage of all the photos you found and post on youtube with careless whisper playing on the background ldo.

ok ok, on a serious note. I think you already know that options b and c would only maybe feel good in the short term. You're young and there is probably a lot of life lessons hidden in this experience. Take the high road, go for option a. As others have said, she cheated because she is a whore or because you were doing something wrong without being aware of it. You will have plenty of time to reflect on that and figure it out on your own.
I'm torn about whether to inform the dude's wife, It would have been easier for me if he didn't have a kid.
After 3 years of dating i'm sure you have a lot of mutual friends and you are acquainted with her parents/relatives? Just think about each one of the options you suggested would do to you and her image to this group of people.

Here's a quote from Alobar from another thread like this. It's great advice, and somewhat applicable to your situation. FWIW, I voted for B.

I like. Make a facebook post for her "Girlfriend is... Cheating on my boyfriend with a married father!"

Yeah, snooping is pretty weak

+1


Count me in on the side of not understanding why guys get so pissed at the other guy and not their girl. I remember in high school hearing how one of my best friends touched my girl's boobies and when I confronted her about it she was like "Well shouldn't you be mad at him?", I was just like "WTF HE'S NOT MY BOYFRIEND! SLUT!!"


Oh yeah, pics please

No pics yet,huh?

EDIT: ot-just dump the bitch.Don`t waste your time by thinking how to get even with her,she is not worth it.

How has interaction with her been since you found out? Are you still having sex and such? Is she picking anything up?

i dont get the analogy so the point is missed for me.

from what i can gather though, the point of showing the pic is to prove that girls who would cheat look like girls. its like watching to catch a predator and noticing that people do this from all walks of life. that said there is a slight twist to the look on average of the people who engage in this. no one should be discounted ever by look, but it would be interesting to see if she really looks like a whore a sweet girl. the more she looks like a sweet girl, the more interesting the story is, and i dont think that is deniable.

Why should he have to move out? He should pack all her stuff up and and when she asks, "What are you doing with all my stuff?" tell her it's over and she needs to find somewhere else to go immediately. When she asks where she's supposed to go, tell her "IDK, how about you live with the guy you're sleeping with."

Crush her. She ****ed you over, so go **** her over worse. Life 101.