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Old 09-08-2010, 05:35 AM   #16
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Oh, I forgot one piece of info. I am also 70% certain that she was sending this guy full frontal shots on my birthday. While i don't have an email confirming it, he did send her a raunchy email the day before and I did find some solo shots on her comp done on my birthday. The pics seemed to match the content of the email he sent.
lol for real pics bro... make one of them your background and ask when and why she took them.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:35 AM   #17
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umm pics now
ahh you crushed me to it... nh
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:36 AM   #18
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Re: Found out GF is cheating on me...

b

Destroying **** with the new bf makes you look weak imo. It might be ugly for her in the short-term but it'll validate her decision to leave you and make her happier down the road. Regardless of what you're going for c. will not be the best option.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:36 AM   #19
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should be infraction points for asking for advice in this spot without posting pics.

i'd stop going through emails. damage is done, no turning back and it's only gonna get worse from here. esp if you find out she's been cheating for 2.5 years or something crazy.

the fact that she's emailing pics leads me to believe she was bored. tough luck man. find somebody else. the quicker you do the quicker you'll feel better/forget about her.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:37 AM   #20
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how hot is your ex?

1-10
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:37 AM   #21
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lol for real pics bro... make one of them your background and ask when and why she took them.
confronting her lessens the chances of 3 some
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:39 AM   #22
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Re: Found out GF is cheating on me...

I'm not going to post pics right now just in case she reads the forums, which does do occasionally.

However, if I do go with C, they will probably make their way on here.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:39 AM   #23
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lol for real pics bro... make one of them your background and ask when and why she took them.
this post has me rethinking my answer
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:39 AM   #24
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I read some advice online and it says that if a guy cheats on his girlfriend, it's because he lacks moral character, but if a girl cheats on his boyfriend it's because the boyfriend was doing something wrong and not caring for her enough. So you should definitely figure out what you did wrong
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get proof and go to his wife with it imo.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:40 AM   #26
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You know what would be bad ass. If you confronted her, cheaters style. Tell her you're going out of town or something like that. Monitor her and when she meets up with the dude. BUST THEM and go insane.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:40 AM   #27
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how hot is your ex?

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real life, probably 6
OOT, -2
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:41 AM   #28
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I read some advice online and it says that if a guy cheats on his girlfriend, it's because he lacks moral character, but if a girl cheats on his boyfriend it's because the boyfriend was doing something wrong and not caring for her enough. So you should definitely figure out what you did wrong
+1 to this, but often you don't do anything wrong. sometimes things just get old and you wanna try on a new pair of jeans.
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:43 AM   #29
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I'm not going to post pics right now just in case she reads the forums, which does do occasionally.

However, if I do go with C, they will probably make their way on here.
paging somebody from CTH. how do we block her computer from accessing a website (twoplustwo/oot)

edit after reading below. nm cth. go back to bed
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how hot is your ex?

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real life, probably 6
OOT, -2
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:43 AM   #30
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You know what would be bad ass. If you confronted her, cheaters style. Tell her you're going out of town or something like that. Monitor her and when she meets up with the dude. BUST THEM and go insane.
Funny, you post this. Some friends of mine offered to do this. However, their choice of location is in the car which would make it difficult.
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