when it happens, can u make her fbook profile public and post the link to her profile here so we can read her wall? please??

ZOMGGGGGGGG, so genius. Damn, you are really good at this OOT thing.

All or nothing. Leave silently or eff everything up.

Grunch:

1. Get drunk, call her

2. Bastard

I grunched to the end, searching for why the poll lists are blank for me (weird)...and stumbled across this.


I don't understand why you feel that it's better for the wife NOT to know? Ignoring OP's motivation for doing so, if you were friends (casual acquaintances, perhaps) with the wife, you would NOT tell her.... why?

There not friends, and it was his girl-friend, whom he can dump, this is a wife in a marriage, dramabomb.jpg

How the **** did OP do this? What, the husband was coerced?

OP,

pleeeeeeeeeeeeeas link FB public profile here

(Also, lol at trying to out-crazy some woman, you have a lot to learn)

OP shouldnt care what people think about him. This isnt a popularity contest, this is about making his insides burn with the white hot fiery rush of vengeance and spite. You prolly dont read the bible much, cuz if you did youd know this is the kinda thing that God loves to do. Fire and brimstone baby!

Also, OP for added effect, Im sure one of us talented folk here could whip you up photoshop style some official looking lab document that says you tested positive for syphilis or gonorrhea (nothing that sticks permanently, we dont wanna ruin your future banging obviously) to post on her page on destruction day (which from this point forward shall be called D-day) implying that you got it from the whore. That way she believes she got an STD from this guy and has to go through all the shebang of getting tested and also having the whole world know shes like the monkey from outbreak

Assuming you were replying to me... so what?

Are you saying that wife should just remain uninformed, to find out on her own? I don't get that logic.

thread has shifted into wanting a trainwreck, I am doubtful, but game obv

This is terrible and makes you come off as someone deserving of being cheated on.

Just stick with Plan A. Move out, confront her when she comes home as you noted, and move on. Skip all the super revenge stuff that makes you come off as super immature and scummy.

I still think you should leave the wife out of it but that's at least a little bit gray.

But in the end, be a real man. Move out, tell her you're leaving and why, move on.

OK, I've finally determined what I would do:

I would tell the girl I know what's going on, and have her gone from my sight ASAP. I would also make sure that the dude knows that I know, and have him wonder whether or not I was going to tell his wife. (I have decided I would NOT, unless there was a good reason.) (Like the dude was an *******)

I just really don't think it is his business to be the one informing, mainly because it will complicate the matter for OP and get him involved much deeper with these piece of **** low-life people, and being in deep emotionally with piece of **** low-life people is so far inferior to being able to walk away from the situation totally imo

Damn, all these Larry's have me confused.

regardless of the state of their marriage you give someone information you yourself would have wanted and you potentially own the guy. Even if she doesn't divorce him and take half his stuff you gave her the option to make the best decision, something she might not have atm. If this isn't a troll post I still stand by B + mail the wife it really is the best. There is no "guy code" here he's been nailing your GF and why should you concern yourself with the details of the guy's marriage? You are simply providing factual information to the relevant party. All is fair at this point. GL

and to anyone saying he had no right to pry into her stuff all I can say is LOL. You don't know OP or his exgf irl so how can you comment on whether his "suspicions" justified his actions or not? How else is he supposed to find out? Hire a P.I.? Follow her around and catch her in the act? You guys are such clowns. Man I think my gf is cheating on me but she will just lie about it if I bring it up and I don't want to break her trust and pry into her private life. WOE IS ME

I agree. Horrible idea. Anything but this.

exactly, he should not

How you don't see this "reasoning" as a huge stretch, I don't understand. Either you've had some really screwed-up experiences... or you need to turn off the soap operas in the afternoons and get back to poker.

not sure where you are from, but here on planet earth people are neither rational nor logical, especially in America where it is our patriotic duty to blame everyone but ourselves for our problems. Maybe im completely wrong in thinking that there exists some very unpleasant outcome in the event tree of this situation. I mean I only watch bad TV for my source of info on this type of stuff, so maybe in reality like 99.9% of all murders and violent crimes are justified and well reasoned out. Or maybe there are no unpleasant events for OP at all, and maybe the wife just locks herself and the kid in a car and drives it off into a river, I mean who gives a **** about that, it doesnt effect OP at all.

lottery - Did you miss the part where OP said he was going to post info all over the place?

So, because something doesn't affect you directly, it's not your problem?

Well, that explains your stance, then.

great x-post imo

heh, I was going to type out another response for you, but then I realized id only be wasting my time, since you dont seem able to grasp things very easily. Carry on

aw man, I was really hoping that you'd take Alobar's initial advice. I don't really think you know what you are getting yourself into by revealing that you have hacked her personal accounts, I don't personally know either but i'd check beforehand for your own sake (from a legal standpoint).
I also agree that if you are going to make the s**t hit the fan that you do it right and not half-ass it.