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You know what would be bad ass. If you confronted her, cheaters style. Tell her you're going out of town or something like that. Monitor her and when she meets up with the dude. BUST THEM and go insane.

09-08-2010 , 04:40 AM

#27

Catch22

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Quote:

Originally Posted by tgo007

how hot is your ex?

1-10

real life, probably 6
OOT, -2

09-08-2010 , 04:41 AM

#28

thankjay

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Originally Posted by garcia1000

I read some advice online and it says that if a guy cheats on his girlfriend, it's because he lacks moral character, but if a girl cheats on his boyfriend it's because the boyfriend was doing something wrong and not caring for her enough. So you should definitely figure out what you did wrong

+1 to this, but often you don't do anything wrong. sometimes things just get old and you wanna try on a new pair of jeans.

09-08-2010 , 04:43 AM

#29

thankjay

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Catch22

I'm not going to post pics right now just in case she reads the forums, which does do occasionally.

However, if I do go with C, they will probably make their way on here.

paging somebody from CTH. how do we block her computer from accessing a website (twoplustwo/oot)

edit after reading below. nm cth. go back to bed
Originally Posted by tgo007
how hot is your ex?

1-10
real life, probably 6
OOT, -2

09-08-2010 , 04:43 AM

#30

Catch22

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Originally Posted by tgo007

Funny, you post this. Some friends of mine offered to do this. However, their choice of location is in the car which would make it difficult.

09-08-2010 , 04:45 AM

#31

cash mahne

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Catch22

real life, probably 6
OOT, -2

wow, guys wife must be awful.

09-08-2010 , 04:46 AM

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Artdogg

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Catch22

I'm not going to post pics right now just in case she reads the forums, which does do occasionally.

However, if I do go with C, they will probably make their way on here.

lol, posting pics is probably one of the tamer things you could do, none of us are going to know who she is

course, if she does read these forums she'll probably come across this thread soon enough

09-08-2010 , 04:49 AM

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cash mahne

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Originally Posted by Artdogg

lol, posting pics is probably one of the tamer things you could do, none of us are going to know who she is

course, if she does read these forums she'll probably come across this thread soon enough

meh, if she reads this forum and this thread she will know its her. So posting pics seems pretty obv imo

09-08-2010 , 04:49 AM

#34

guids

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dont confront her, just start bringing home and banging chicks and get caught doing it, or go out with you and all HER friends, and blantantly hit on some girls/leave the group and take one home; if I found out that my gf was cheating, I would just start banging chicks, but act like nothing is wrong and see who blinks first

09-08-2010 , 04:51 AM

#35

tgo007

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Post some parts of the raunchy email. Give us something.

09-08-2010 , 05:03 AM

#36

jmil23

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B + mail his wife to own him gg

09-08-2010 , 05:03 AM

#37

Thijs908

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definitly tell the guy's wife

09-08-2010 , 05:18 AM

#38

wathappened

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easiest c ever and pics please

09-08-2010 , 05:29 AM

#39

GoodGame

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B imho

also read lostsoul's tr's in 4life and see if any match the description of your gf

Last edited by GoodGame; 09-08-2010 at 05:37 AM.

09-08-2010 , 05:49 AM

#40

ZDAR

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If my g/f was cheating i would instantly be posting pics. Your just going to let her get away with it?

make sure to keep this thread updated.

09-08-2010 , 05:52 AM

#41

sheepish_mo

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i think b and c are both pretty good and a combination would work pretty well plus be pretty satisfying.... im a pretty vindictive person though so i guess it kinda depends what ur like as a person. are u calm, accepting, reasonable? if so take the nice guys way out and pick a. if however ull get some sick pleasure out of inflicting the same pain ur feeling on the people causing that pain b/c sounds good

09-08-2010 , 06:03 AM

#42

JayTeeMe

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Open an honest dialog. Find out if she really did that on your birthday. If yes, murder/suicide. If no A plus tell the guy's wife plus post pics.

09-08-2010 , 06:13 AM

#43

BadHorse

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uhh A) for sure

It happened, you can't change it, just move on.

There's some quote where pouring acid onto something from a container damages the container more than the thing you poured it on. I think it applies here.

Like I seriously think randomly cutting off contact could potentially be unhealthy/hurt you, closure is important for all involved. I've had experience going for B/C before and in the end regretted it and wished I would have just dealt with it properly. Telling the wife is def an option, although giving the dude an opportunity to tell his wife or else you will is probs a better way to go about it.

09-08-2010 , 06:14 AM

#44

BadHorse

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Quote:

Originally Posted by sheepish_mo

if however ull get some sick pleasure out of inflicting the same pain ur feeling on the people causing that pain b/c sounds good

This almost never works out well. It sounds super lame but the best way you can get back at someone in this situation imo is by living well.

09-08-2010 , 06:15 AM

#45

Ratterman

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send the pics and emails to her parents

09-08-2010 , 06:21 AM

#46

BadHorse

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Originally Posted by tgo007

Uhh, no.

a) why would you waste your time doing this?
b) how would this be helpful?

Spending time and energy spying on her to see for yourself something she would voluntarily confess to if asked then going bat**** insane "busting" them seems real healthy.

09-08-2010 , 06:23 AM

#47

SneakyFerret

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FWIW, I'd probably start cheating on her during the process of deciding what to do about breaking up.

09-08-2010 , 06:26 AM

#48

JayTeeMe

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And look at the positive: Post-breakup backslide sex is way better than live-in girlfriend sex.

09-08-2010 , 06:29 AM

#49

BadHorse

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Catch22

once i became suspicious i obtained access to all of her email passwords, msn convos, facebook, etc.

Also I think this response to a suspicion indicates where the relationship was at. Seems better for you that your suspicions were confirmed OP, in that it pretty much guarantees the end of the relationship where invading privacy/breaking trust/going behind back > talking about it.

09-08-2010 , 06:51 AM

#50

gumpzilla

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I understand the desire for wreaking great vengeance and furious anger, but I dislike telling the guy's wife. Blowing him up because you're pissed at your girlfriend - and her ****ing around is entirely her fault - seems like poor form.

EDIT: And yeah, obviously him cheating is poor form, too. But I doubt most people make a habit of informing on adulterers. Doing it in this case because you feel like getting back at the guy is pretty ****ty.

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