So much bull**** in this thread. Exhibit One:
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Originally Posted by SGT RJ
1) Borderline Personality Disorder (or any personality disorder) cannot be cured or fixed or really dealt with by medication. Other comorbid issues such as depression or anxiety can be managed by medication, but any underlying personality disorder requires fairly intensive therapy to make any changes. So is she in therapy? If not, you need to understand this will not get better.
Link to evidence of this? You'd better have some hard evidence backing your opinion to make claims like this.
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You cannot fix this or her.
You have never met either of these people, and yet you state this categorically? Methinks you are rising above your knowledge and station.
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These are long entrenched patterns of thinking and behaving and even if she recognizes in other moments that she doesn't want to act that way, nothing will change without some sort of treatment.
Again (and I don't know the research), do you have definitive reviews of high impact peer reviewed studies that show definitively that the cluster of behaviors loosely defined as "borderline personality disorder" does not improve under any circumstances for any person without "treatment"?
Exhibit Two:
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Originally Posted by Dids
This is a despicable post. He's talking about somebody with a mental health issue, and you come in all "lol women that's standard".
He's offering his experience with women. It may be wrong or right to generalize from that, but it puts the whole situation into perspective. No one is perfect and plenty of people have quite serious issues when you dig below the surface, including issues that manifest themselves in very obvious ways. He even gave you an example.
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A few people in this forum are going to have helpful advice, but the vast majority are going to be idiot misogynists and children that you should ignore.
So the guy's a misogynist, according to what? Misogynist means he
hates women - from what in his post do you draw that conclusion??? He seems to believe that most women are a little bit batty. To see hate where there is none, you might be a deep-seated misogynist yourself. Or perhaps you are a misanthrope or misandrist?
Last edited by Truthsayer; 10-24-2013 at 11:40 AM.