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Old 10-18-2007, 08:29 PM   #16
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Re: Awkward situation with my buddy, his GF, and my Ex

OP,

This isn't an awkward situation, because she already has been told by someone who was very close to her.

If she didn't know and was getting tricked and screwed over and she's someone you care about, it's a tough spot for you.

But the fact that she has already been told makes it crystal clear what you need to do - nothing.
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Old 10-18-2007, 09:21 PM   #17
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pics of "scarface" or it didnt happen
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Old 10-18-2007, 09:31 PM   #18
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Sadly, nothing you can do. If Brittany doesn't believe Blair, you adding your voice won't matter. People are delusional when it comes to love. Wish Brittany the best of luck and go your seperate ways.
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Old 10-18-2007, 11:05 PM   #19
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I must be some kind of idiot, but I absolutely think you should tell her. I think most of the good reasons for keeping your mouth shut are selfish.
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Old 10-18-2007, 11:35 PM   #20
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Bros before hoes, despite being beat to it by post above me.

Seriously, wtf, how is this even a question?
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Old 10-19-2007, 01:20 AM   #21
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The girl already knows he's cheating. She doesn't care, she wants to keep the relationship going. Just stay out of it.
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Old 10-19-2007, 02:11 AM   #22
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Re: Awkward situation with my buddy, his GF, and my Ex

You guys think you're so honorable by staying quiet, that is not honorable. The truth is.

If you were getting cheated on, wouldn't you want to be told? I know I would.
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Old 10-19-2007, 02:40 AM   #23
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I've never told any of this to Brittany, didn't want to get involved. Until recently, Blair found out, and confirmed through me that Miguel has in fact been sleeping with a co-worker, one who works with Miguel and Brittany. Blair is super protective of her girl friends, and made Brittany aware.
Sounds to me like you wanted to get involved without having to take any heat for it.
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Old 10-19-2007, 02:48 AM   #24
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Re: Awkward situation with my buddy, his GF, and my Ex

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OP,

This isn't an awkward situation, because she already has been told by someone who was very close to her.

If she didn't know and was getting tricked and screwed over and she's someone you care about, it's a tough spot for you.

But the fact that she has already been told makes it crystal clear what you need to do - nothing.
agree w/this. not much you can do, if she wants to get played that is her business.
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Old 10-19-2007, 03:51 AM   #25
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If I do get outed, I get outed. Miguel has become less and less a worthy friend. There's obviously more to the story, but I'm not too fond of a person who calls my GF "Scarface" referring to her facial [censored] ups from a very very serious car wreck, and multiple facial re constructive surgeries. Very childish.

Not to mention, he has no morals, and isn't a very decent human being.
Wait, he insulted your GF in front of your face and you're worrying about maintaining a relationship with this douchebag. He obviously has no respect for you or his significant he's obviously a dishonest prick. Is that acceptable among your peers?

Probably so you wee-willied punk.

Heh, just kidding there. I just for the life of me can't understand why people tolerate dishonest people hanging around. That's all.

You probably let him slip it in your peach hole didn't you? You probably have two peach holes like a girl does. That's why.
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Old 10-19-2007, 04:21 PM   #26
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illeagle,

First off, go [censored] yourself. Secondly, this happened after he found out people were on to him. The more and more I look at it, the more I realize how [censored] of a friend he is. Someone like this, with such little morals, isn't someone I want to be friends with.

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Old 10-19-2007, 08:39 PM   #27
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You guys think you're so honorable by staying quiet, that is not honorable. The truth is.

If you were getting cheated on, wouldn't you want to be told? I know I would.
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Old 10-19-2007, 10:02 PM   #28
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why dont you just mind your own business? i think you have a thing for this brittney girl and just want to move after you mess her life up.

its great when people mess up other people's lives because they a)feel they have some kind of moral high-ground or b) are bored.
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Old 10-19-2007, 10:59 PM   #29
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You should have kept your mouth shut in the first place. If you weren't going to get involved you shouldn't have confirmed anything with Blair
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Old 10-20-2007, 09:04 AM   #30
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Re: Awkward situation with my buddy, his GF, and my Ex

you took the worst possible action.

if you had a problem with what he was doing you should have said something the first time. or else said something to him when you realised you had a problem with it. if he doesnt like it then tell him you are gonna tell his gf. if you come to blows so be it.

if its not a big problem then it isnt your business anyway so just stay out of it.

dont betray this guys trust and go behind his back gossipping in his territory....
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