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illeagle,

First off, go [censored] yourself. Secondly, this happened after he found out people were on to him. The more and more I look at it, the more I realize how [censored] of a friend he is. Someone like this, with such little morals, isn't someone I want to be friends with.

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10-19-2007 , 08:39 PM

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Misfire

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You guys think you're so honorable by staying quiet, that is not honorable. The truth is.

If you were getting cheated on, wouldn't you want to be told? I know I would.

QFGDMFT

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10-19-2007 , 10:02 PM

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AmadisSB

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why dont you just mind your own business? i think you have a thing for this brittney girl and just want to move after you mess her life up.

its great when people mess up other people's lives because they a)feel they have some kind of moral high-ground or b) are bored.

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10-19-2007 , 10:59 PM

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Spellmen

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You should have kept your mouth shut in the first place. If you weren't going to get involved you shouldn't have confirmed anything with Blair

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10-20-2007 , 09:04 AM

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Bulletproof Monk

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you took the worst possible action.

if you had a problem with what he was doing you should have said something the first time. or else said something to him when you realised you had a problem with it. if he doesnt like it then tell him you are gonna tell his gf. if you come to blows so be it.

if its not a big problem then it isnt your business anyway so just stay out of it.

dont betray this guys trust and go behind his back gossipping in his territory....

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10-20-2007 , 09:54 AM

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FlyWf

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I disagree, you played this reasonably well. It sounds like Miguel isn't really grade-A friend material anyway, so [censored] any sort of "man rule" about not messing with his infidelity. But you aren't involved and it isn't your place to randomly call some dude's GF and rat him out. Providing some deep cover background to a trusted confidant of Brittany provides that information to the injured party without getting involved, if she didn't believe Blair she isn't going to believe you.

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10-20-2007 , 09:58 AM

#32

smoking blunt

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gj ratting out ur buddy

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10-20-2007 , 11:04 AM

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RustedCorpse

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So your goal is to [censored] Brittany? Because if you just want to say you're a "noble, caring and sympathetic" friend. Just [censored] tell her. At least deal straight up, with her, and your friend.

Let's assume that your goal isn't to look honest, noble and whatever, you're [censored] with a relationship that a) isn't yours b) shouldn't involve you in anyway if your penis is dry.

Understanding other people's relationships is simple. If your wang wang ain't in her or his who ha. You have no business in the hand.

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10-20-2007 , 11:29 AM

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tarheeljks

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dont betray this guys trust and go behind his back gossipping in his territory....

lol @ this for being a reason not to act. it's not gossip if you know he did it, it's just meddling. if he doesn't want to it should be b/c he has no desire to meddle, not b/c he's worried about hurting this guy's feelings. exposing someone for wrong doing is not a betrayal of trust.

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