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07-27-2010, 01:53 PM
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
You know she's gonna look like her mom in 20 years, right? And still be crazy?
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07-27-2010, 01:53 PM
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#122
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veteran
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
she's hot.
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07-27-2010, 01:53 PM
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#123
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
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Originally Posted by NoahSD
For some reason her being a redhead totally changed the way I think about this whole thing. Am I the only one?
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LOL, my first thought. Redhead + Michelle = pure craziness.
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07-27-2010, 02:00 PM
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#124
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
OP, why is asparagus like anal sex?
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07-27-2010, 02:05 PM
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#125
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emo gaylord
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
I don't know if this has been asked, but OP do you think you have any mental problems of your own? I can't decide if you are a normal guy dealing with an abnormal situation or if you are pretty twisted. Having sex with a girl that looks that young while she thinks she's nine or whatever is really freaking me out. On the other hand, you're having a relatively normal consensual relationship with a fellow adult, so I dunno.
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07-27-2010, 02:06 PM
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#126
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
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Answered this in this post.
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No, I don't think you did at all. The fact that Little Michelle comes on to you does not make it okay. Children sometimes (often) want things that are bad for them. That is why they have parents/caretakers that say "no" on their behalf.
Sexual abuse often feels physically good to the victim. It doesn't change the fact that it is abuse, or that the victim is not ready for it. It also can make dealing with the abuse more difficult psychologically because admitting it feels good makes the victim feel guilty.
What does her therapist think about the fact that you have sexual relations with LM? This is genuine curiosity, btw, because I can imagine an argument for doing it, but I'd really like to know what the therapist says.
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07-27-2010, 02:08 PM
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#127
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Pooh-Bah
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
This thread is amazing.
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07-27-2010, 02:11 PM
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#128
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2008 uFR HU4LOLZ Champ
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
such a sick thread, such an interesting subject... thanks for doing this man, I dont have any questions for now but will def post them if/when they do come up
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07-27-2010, 02:15 PM
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#129
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
which one will be most likely to kill you in your sleep (or is it one you haven't met yet)?
tough to bail when you're in love, but when monster matty comes after you with a can of gas and zippo...well, good luck bro.
Last edited by JustJ46671; 07-27-2010 at 02:17 PM.
Reason: zomg...and a redhead! doomed, imo
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07-27-2010, 02:17 PM
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#130
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old hand
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
legal =/= relatively normal
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07-27-2010, 02:19 PM
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#131
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Lounge Laureate
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
I am speechless. Just, I, well...I don't know what to say.
You need to take an airplane far away. FAR away.
"Little Michelle noms on a book, Normal Michelle does this or that..."
You realize that girl looks like she's 13 years old, right?
Also, this picture is downright scary:
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07-27-2010, 02:25 PM
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Playground Monitor
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
Thanks for doing this thread, OP, its turning out great.
She looks way younger than 23 is some of those pictures, its kind of frightening.
Noah, No, I by default expected her to be a redhead. Hair color racist ban?
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07-27-2010, 02:25 PM
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veteran
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
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Originally Posted by Rushmore
I am speechless. Just, I, well...I don't know what to say.
You need to take an airplane far away. FAR away.
"Little Michelle noms on a book, Normal Michelle does this or that..."
You realize that girl looks like she's 13 years old, right?
Also, this picture is downright scary:

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I take it you're a believer now then?
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07-27-2010, 02:30 PM
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#134
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bee-ah-tuh
Join Date: Mar 2009
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
I read most of this but a lot of it actually started to disgust and upset me so I had to stop.
1) Were you introduced to all of her personalities all at once or did they develop over time?
2) Are you a "normal" dude? What do you do for a living?
Also, has anyone else noticed that most tiny/small girls are ****ing bonkers?
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07-27-2010, 02:36 PM
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#135
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Re: ask me what it's like dating a chick with multiple personalities
OP - first, this is a very interesting thread, so thanks for it.
Pulling out this quote because I think this may be a very good read of the relationship dynamic:
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Originally Posted by ATAT
On a serious note, this smacks of really bad codependent dysfunction on your end. Your gf is cute and she may be wonderful when normal, but this is severe mental illness you've described itt--she's a danger to herself and others. Frankly, I don't see a normal person staying with this girl, although you are fairly young so maybe that factors in.
I may be wrong here, but I seem to detect a real pleasure in your descriptions of Little Michelle. I'm not accusing you of pedophilia or anything, but you seem to get off on some level to the caretaker/parent role that this aspect of her personality foists on you, or that's at least the way it reads to me.
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I agree with alot of this, and have 2 questions around this idea:
Question 1 - have you carefully thought through / considered the notion that your being with her right now is actually hindering a potential full recovery? What do her therapists think about her being in an intense, romantic relationship at this stage?
Question 2 - I think it's pretty clear that you enjoy the part of the relationship where you take care of her. Save her. This isn't uncommon a driver for men and their attraction to women... but it's safe to say this is an extreme version of that impulse. My question is (and we haven't really heard alot about your own story) - why do you think this is for you?
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Originally Posted by spoonitnow
Oh hey between answering questions, I just thought of a funny poker story. She's never really been into poker, but knows the rules and was playing play money with me and some of my friends one day. The action preflop was something like shove, shove, shove, shove, and then it's to her with pocket Aces and she folded because she was scared of losing. She didn't realize at the time how incredibly bad that was, etc. I thought it was neat.
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I'm sorry - why is this "neat"? Just curious.
Thanks, OP!
-Al
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