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Originally Posted by lonely_but_rich
jzpiano, that was a really bad joke. I'm sorry.
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Originally Posted by lonely_but_rich
I was actually offered a job teaching kids to draw and declined because of those reasons. If one person seriously accused me of being a pedophile I don't know how I could cope with that.
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Glad to hear that it was a joke. *Exhale* That's the thing with the internet it can be hard to tell sometimes especially around 2+2. Never sure when the level will come out.
Just one of those that is hard to take in my line of work. I hear comments like that all the time used casually and if the wrong person hears it or it gets taken the wrong way somebody could end up in jail or not ever get a job teaching. Very scary ****. There was a thread not to long ago about this issue and I had a very tough time reading it because of some of the comments the 2+2 crowd had.
As far as dealing with it in person. If somebody calls me that in person for whatever reason I have to walk away immediately or I'm going to do something I tell my students to never do. I don't mind having a discussion with people, but with people like that it never can be a discussion.
I won't rant on too much more, but it is obviously a very personal topic to me, so much so that I'm currently working on a dissertation about perceptions surrounding male elementary school teachers. I really wish our society would change regarding that issue especially since if you go back about to colonial times men were the dominant gender in the teacher profession. That eventually turned and now it is a female dominated profession. Males comprise only about 25% of the ~3 million teachers in the US. In secondary schools the split is around 50/50, elementary schools are 9% male and once you get to kindergarten/preschool your looking at 1-2%.
/end derail.