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Originally Posted by DangerNoodle
2.) I've been trying to give this guy every opportunity to sack up and pay his own debt
Here's one of the places I think you're going wrong. Have you talked to the guy personally, one on one? Maybe there's a story you're not seeing. Maybe he's got two months to live and he's partying it up and doesn't want everyone to know. Maybe his girlfriend or parents paid for his vacation. Maybe he's lying about having a good job. Maybe there's some embarrassing reason he can't pay you. You're assuming a lot based on the facts you've mentioned ITT. Most likely scenario, of course, is that he's trying to screw you. But your own issues regarding confrontation are murking up the waters and making your statement appear false.
So far, it seems that all you've done is 1) texted him multiple times, 2) asked friends about why he's not paying, and 3) confronted his girlfriend about it. If you're going to claim that you've given "this guy every opportunity" you have to knock on his door.
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Originally Posted by DangerNoodle
chase- i addressed why i don't bother taking time out of my day to show up at his apartment already in an earlier post.
I scrolled back through your posts, Noodle, and found nothing at all remotely addressing this issue except for you calling yourself a passive aggressive pussy. Why would you
not take this route?