Open Side Menu Go to the Top
Register
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you.

10-30-2021 , 04:15 AM
This may fall on deaf ears, but I wish it makes a difference.

My son died on May 23rd.

At 23 years old.

Police say suicide.

But won't investigate further.

He ingested mushrooms.How, it's not known,all is known is he ended up shooting himself.

Other people were there at the time,no one was interviewed.

No neighbors were interviewed.

I never was asked anything when I showed up.

I asked questions, asked to have additional evidence collected from the people at the scene.

To the point they threatened to arrest me.

Found out the investigator did the investigation over the phone.

Because it was the weekend,no investigator came out, and the officers on scene told him it looked like a suicide.

I've made inquiries on how it was handled and have been threatened with arrest, just because I'm asking questions.

Talked to officers in other jurisdictions and they told me that procedure wasn't followed.

And it looks like that's the end of it.

All I want to tell you guys is to tell the people you care about how much you care for them.

Because it may be the last time the next time you see them.

And to let the petty **** go.

Don't let the memory you have of them be a bad one.

Make amends if possible.

And God better watch his ass, when we meet it's not going to be pretty.

whatever
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-30-2021 , 11:04 AM
I'm sorry for your loss.
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-30-2021 , 05:33 PM
That is beyond terrible. So sorry to hear. Condolences to family and friends.
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-31-2021 , 06:34 PM
So sorry to hear this Eeyore. My thoughts are with you at this awful time.
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-31-2021 , 06:40 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eeyorefora
This may fall on deaf ears, but I wish it makes a difference.

My son died on May 23rd.

At 23 years old.

Police say suicide.

But won't investigate further.

He ingested mushrooms.How, it's not known,all is known is he ended up shooting himself.

Other people were there at the time,no one was interviewed.

No neighbors were interviewed.

I never was asked anything when I showed up.

I asked questions, asked to have additional evidence collected from the people at the scene.

To the point they threatened to arrest me.

Found out the investigator did the investigation over the phone.

Because it was the weekend,no investigator came out, and the officers on scene told him it looked like a suicide.

I've made inquiries on how it was handled and have been threatened with arrest, just because I'm asking questions.

Talked to officers in other jurisdictions and they told me that procedure wasn't followed.

And it looks like that's the end of it.

All I want to tell you guys is to tell the people you care about how much you care for them.

Because it may be the last time the next time you see them.

And to let the petty **** go.

Don't let the memory you have of them be a bad one.

Make amends if possible.

And God better watch his ass, when we meet it's not going to be pretty.

whatever
An attorney will direct you in the right direction with no cost.
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-31-2021 , 06:44 PM
oh man, i'm so sorry for your loss, that's terrible

have you considered seeking legal assistance/private investigator to push it through? even if it leads nowhere you won't be left wondering about that as much in the future.

so sorry to hear this my pms are always open for you
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-31-2021 , 06:59 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by rickroll
oh man, i'm so sorry for your loss, that's terrible

have you considered seeking legal assistance/private investigator to push it through? even if it leads nowhere you won't be left wondering about that as much in the future.

so sorry to hear this my pms are always open for you
Actually had a police officer recommend this.

But he also recommended I not live in this jurisdiction when I decide to pursue it.

Still waiting for the final report, it may be another couple months, they aren't just incompetent, they're lazy as well.





whatever
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-31-2021 , 09:10 PM
That's rough man. My condolences.

I say 'Love you' whenever I part with both of my children(and they reciprocate), no matter if it is going out or going upstairs to bed. My reasoning is, the last words I will say to them will always be 'Love you', much like what OP is inferring.
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
10-31-2021 , 10:50 PM
Very sorry, Eeyore. That's unspeakably awful.
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
11-09-2021 , 09:19 PM
Im very sorry to hear this, thats tragic

I hope he is in a better place of peace now
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote
11-25-2021 , 03:52 AM
It's six months since it happened.

I've found out how much family means, and found out how great his friends are.

He really had great friends, I have ****** relatives.

Getting ****** up right now, happy Thanksgiving

whatever
Please tell the people you love how much they mean to you. Quote

      
m