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Originally Posted by Larry Legend
I think he already covered biggest tip.
Have you ever had PUA types using your bar for a pick up spot? Guys using the same tactics on women day in day out type stuff?
Absolutely. This is actually one of my favorite things about being behind the bar. Watching that game play out is an endless source of fascination and entertainment.
That game. That ****ing man and woman game. That's the only game in town. Once you start playing that...
Lines don't work. So, throw that **** out the window. Okay, most guys should forget lines. If the line is funny and meant as a joke then it can work. This one girl asked this guy how he was doing gambling. He said, "I lost all my money. Can I come to your place and do my laundry?" She thought it was so funny that they actually wound up hooking up.
For the most part though lines are dog ****. The guys who really pull are the ones who don't try. Go out with the intention of having fun. Drink, gamble, and laugh it up. If the girls see you having fun then they'll want to join in. If they don't then no PUA **** is going to change their minds.
Groups of guys tend to pull (smaller) groups of girls. The girls like to be out numbered so some selection can go on.
Guys by themselves can still pull but it's tougher. Get in good with the bartender. Chat about the game, the jackpot, restaurants, whatever. Chicks within earshot will chime in. It's a three way conversation. When the bartender gets busy it's a two way conversation... You broke the ice and you didn't even try.
I watched this one cat pull a number. He was humming some rap song. This girl is like, "OMG I love that song!" Get out of here... "No really, it's my favorite song! It's my ringtone."
skeptical So, if I call you right now, your phone is gonna play 2 Chainz? "Yes, I'm serious!" What's your number?
He sees me watching and ships me a knowing glance. I nod my head. Well played young man. Well played.