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Originally Posted by RunninMan5K
I think that is the real dilemma at hand though when people talk about "becoming a professional poker player." People look at Phil Ivey and say "He is the greatest player ever" and then they look at their own game and see glimpses of manufacturing some of what he does but they fail to see his failure, and there is plenty in the soft skills but he will always have someone to back him, someone to help him out.
This is true, but anyone ever in need of help to get through tough times should just not play professionally. I've seen this countless times over the years, and while it works for a while, they almost all wind up broke and in debt. If you can't be self-sufficient don't play for a living, and certainly don't
begin a career in poker.
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Originally Posted by RunninMan5K
Alex Honnold, one of the greatest if not greatest free-solo climber (no ropes, no gear of any kind but shoes and a bag of chalk) of all time was asked by a reporter a few years ago "What advice would you give to someone who wants to free-solo climb? How do they know they are ready?" and he said (para-phrased), "I don't think you actually know. I just think you get to the bottom of the wall and if you don't get that feeling in your gut that you cannot swallow and still go up, well, then you are ready."
This is just not the case in poker. It's very easy to tell when it's time. Money. Lots of money coming in. Lots of money coming in that well exceeds your current job's hourly (and preferably your job's expectation well into the future). When this happens, you leave. You leave when working your job is costing you money. I left when I couldn't afford to keep my job any longer.
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Originally Posted by RunninMan5K
In poker, we all see that big wall, and we want it, but maybe for awhile we just need to stick to the tougher wall which is inevitably ourselves and when we are ready, we can go and try to excel our game to some new limit, but maybe after getting a job, managing our money, and not having ridiculous expectations but rather sound and practiced processes and the ability to rinse and repeat those to find small successes that add up to more than we could have ever gotten thinking we could climb some crazy, unrealistic wall like "becoming a professional poker player."
Yes. One step at a time. I played the game for 10 years before moving to it full-time, and that was not 10 years of dicking around; it was serious study and play. I also would add that no one should ever look to grind a living playing **** stakes. I suppose if you're only hope is McDonald's then okay, but that just means you should get your ass in school first.
If you can squeak by and make your nut playing small-stakes, great, but keep your job and keep moving up. You will move up far faster if you don't have to keep taking money out of your roll to pay your living expenses. Don't spend any winnings, just keep moving up. There are donks at high-stakes, too. They are tougher, but once you dominate them the difference is the same, so why would you want to be missing out on that action, just for some freedom now?