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Originally Posted by JayDowdle
the hardest part of poker really.... is the mental side, whether its brm, handling bad beats, tilt, studying.. etc
its not for everyone that's for sure
+1.
There were many times, while suffering downswings/bad beats, I wished that I were void of emotion . I think those that stay the course and do very well in poker are those that can almost robotically analyze situations and realize that they played a hand(s) correctly despite losing moneys, and not really trip about it. I could do this
most of the time. But I would be lying if I said I could do this every time, because I could not. There were times that the beats would pile on and on and on, and perhaps at times when I was more emotionally invested than I "should have" been (due to whatever reasons--some of which having nothing even to do with poker). This is where a poker pro
really earns his/her money and is ultimately pushed to the wall in terms of career challenges imo. I don't miss that feeling. Despite how many times I told myself that I "got it in good", whilst losing say 4-5 consecutive big all ins, it wasn't always easy to put on a smiley face and be cheery around my family after those days. In fact it was down right hard! I wasn't chewing anybody out, but I wasn't really happy either, and everybody knew it. You can't fake happiness. I challenged myself to shrug off the bad runs and be happy, but that is MUCH easier said than done. I realize others handle these "dark times", which are an inevitable part of poker, better and with relative ease, but imho these people are the exception rather than the rule. The human element of poker is exceedingly difficult to overcome--for years on end, anyway. This is why bots make so much more sense!
Poker is a fascinating and intricate game. I love infinite level of skill associated with it. In many ways I think poker is more difficult to master than chess. Nonetheless I believe that poker is best when played as a hobby or on the side, either for additional income and/or for the "love of the game." To rely on poker as one's sole source of income can be a highly tedious endeavor.
Last edited by Ativan; 10-26-2014 at 08:52 AM.