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Originally Posted by JPE23
He needs to see someone, maybe even a psychoanalyst, to completely deconstruct him and let him understand why he feels the way he feels.
Psychoanalysis is for people who are truly screwed up such that they lose nothing intellectualizing/ruminating with a stranger crazier than they are. Psychology isn't that different to Scientology and E-meters. It's as nutty if not nuttier. That's not to say some isn't ok (like CBT), or that you won't run into someone who might help, but most of it is a hodgepodge of pseudoscientific crap and cult-like beliefs that people without serious problems are better staying away from.
Intelligent, together people like OP don't need deconstruction, they need new directions, new perspectives and to try a diverse range of new things until something sticks.