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Originally Posted by JPE23
Christ, none of this has much to do with "the poker lifestyle". OP is just lost, plain and simple. The guy has the all the money and freedom that most of us would give our left nut for.
Go seek a therapist TwoSHAE.
Yep I think this nails it. I don't know if you're being tongue in cheek about suggesting seeing a therapist, I don't think that would help but I don't know. Most people on these boards are giving a sort of advice that may be too focused to be beneficial, too much of providing specific career directions to explore or ways to improve social standing.
I think the OP has deeper, perhaps spiritual, issues. I honestly think the best thing for him is to start with the basics of his perception and feeling, acknowledge his transient, moment to moment consciousness. Then proceed outward from there. Look for the challenge, like I said, the butterflies, the sweat, the feeling of "oh I can't do that, I'm not that kind of person" and then do it. It won't be too hard to find with a little effort. I think this is all there is to it really, but it's difficult to do and success is always partial.
A great wizard who lived before our time said the following:
You say I am repeating
Something I have said before. I shall say it again,
Shall I say it again? In order to arrive there,
To arrive where you are, to get from where you are not,
You must go by a way wherein there is no ecstasy.
In order to arrive at what you do not know
You must go by a way which is the way of ignorance.
In order to possess what you do not possess
You must go by the way of dispossession.
In order to arrive at what you are not
You must go through the way in which you are not.
And what you do not know is the only thing you know
And what you own is what you do not own
And where you are is where you are not.
(actually he wrote that, didn't say it)