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09-04-2016 , 04:53 PM
Given some of the past actions and reactions from Ben that have been reported ITT

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+ my addiction to watching Dateline and Forensic Files,

Takes this thread from a little funny to a little scary for me.
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09-04-2016 , 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by TheGift&TheCurse
an egotistical fistpumping tryhard bro like WCG
lolol, funny description

Unless you know doug personally though he doesn't come off as that. If anything he's a giant nerd who got good at social interaction through self improvement material, like many other people who grew up doing nothing but playing videogames.
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09-04-2016 , 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by lostinthesaus
Given some of the past actions and reactions from Ben that have been reported ITT

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+ my addiction to watching Dateline and Forensic Files,

Takes this thread from a little funny to a little scary for me.


combined with this...

we have a schoolshooting in the making

Last edited by MakeBelieve; 09-04-2016 at 05:01 PM. Reason: on horseback
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09-04-2016 , 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Waltjr
Easy to see why TwoShae is siding with Ben, he is also soft spoken and introverted like him and doesn't see both sides of the story. Before you get salty I am the same way. The fact of the matter is we are all biased and emotional and it takes another person with a different perspective to call you out. Doug is also being a bit of a drama queen and people who are too aggro with their beliefs and emotions (i.e. Evangelicals) just aren't liked other than those who share those same opinions.

Now the only real solution to this would be HUforRollz
I'm not siding with anyone, and certainly not because of how their personality relates to mine.

I made it very clear that I think both parties have made mistakes. I'm just calling it like I see it, and while I can't evaluate exactly what is true about each of their claims, I can evaluate various other things.

-him sitting him at CAP which is clearly not a big deal since there was no forced action. Doug, if he sat you at 100bb HUNL, would you have reacted differently? Also at that point where you've already written off friendship, it shouldn't come as a surprise that he wanted to play. It would be noteworthy if he sat you on another account, or on 888 if you didn't know his sn, etc...

-making initial post / this thread / throwing Ben's relationship with Galfond/Don under the bus / outing his software was all very childish.

-giving coaching (Doug) and receiving coaching (Ben) before deal was 100% confirmed was a mistake. The crux of it comes down to whether or not Ben mentioned he had contractual obligations and needed his partner's approval. It's unclear at this point if this was mentioned. Regardless, I think there should have been some discussion about compensation for the coaching he did receive -- either a lump sum payment or standing pieces for x amount of time in Ben's NL action.

-Also as far as the bit about giving him a piece vs not giving him a piece vs Blom -- this is super lol. Everyone who sells/buys action makes it clear whether it's a standing piece or if it needs approval before any play starts. Like the piece is either clearly booked or clearly not booked. It sounds like since you couldn't reach him, and you weren't sure, it should be clearly not booked.

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Originally Posted by DontBanMePlz

Some time later, I had a swap with Ben in something and Doug found out and asked me to cancel it. I told him i didn't want to because I thought it was a good spot and I didn't have a personal problem with Ben.

in the 32 minute video i just wasted 32 mintutes of my life watching
The cancel swap thing is ridic unless he thought Ben was going to straight up scam you.

You can increase playback speed on youtube to only waste 16-21 minutes of your life next time.

Last edited by Two SHAE; 09-04-2016 at 05:13 PM.
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09-04-2016 , 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by NL Loki*
“But Ben, you promised...” Doug stuttered, holding back tears.

“I can’t… There’s someone else. I don’t wanna break his heart” Ben said apologetically, as he looked down, not wanting to stare back into Doug’s penetrating beautiful blue gaze. He bit his lip slightly, as he winced at the pain, but it was nothing compared to one that the betrayal had caused Doug.

“WHY! I gave you everything. EVERYTHING!” Doug screamed as he struggled to compose himself. He wraps his arm around himself, gripping with a certain tightness. He felt so used. So unloved. So violated. A salty bead, descends from the corner of his eyes, meanders down the delicate contours of his cheekbones as he murmurs. The emotional pain intensifies, manifesting into reality as he struggles to take a breath, managing only a gurgling and pitiful sound that resembles the cry of a donkey.

“I’m so sorry. This wasn’t supposed to happen. I thought it would work. That we could all be together.” Ben chokes, as he starts to fight back tears, turning his head completely away from Doug, acknowledging the depth of his own treason.

“But what am I going to do? I have nothing now. No one would wants me!” Doug cries as he realise no one will want him now. No one will play with him. No one will touch him anymore. He’s only salvation is Ben. The only one who will give him a chance to be something.

“It’s not like you haven’t hurt me either” Ben spat back as Doug’s pained expression turned into one of shock. “You saw you. That night. You were with that kid. The Swedish one. What’s his name again, Blom or something?” Ben continued. “I saw what you did. You two. All night. You guys went at it for hours straight” I didn’t know you like blondes. Don’t think I didn’t see it. I saw it all. You didn’t even know”

“That was one mistake. One night it happened. It didn’t mean anything. I was lonely” Doug retorted. “You hurt me so bad. You don’t even know. Everytime we go out. You had to put me down. In front of everyone. What so good about that guy Ike anyway. What does he have that I don’t. I bet he’s the one. Isn’t he. I can’t believe you chose him over me after all we had together. What was so special about him, that everything we had meant nothing to you.”

“He had something you didn’t” Ben muttered quietly. “A dream.”



To Be Continued……
you should use this for the nvg short story contest. i loled.
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09-04-2016 , 05:23 PM
Post #107 says it all. He had no plan other than to play WCG. Obv scummy, plus scary stories. Im now a bit scared of someone I know he reminds me of.
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09-04-2016 , 05:24 PM
NVG Drama at its finest, what this needs now is a SrslySirius song about it.
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09-04-2016 , 05:26 PM
to bad srlslysrius isnt in buisness anymore..



hello from the other side
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09-04-2016 , 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by SootedPowa
NVG Drama at its finest, what this needs now is a SrslySirius song about it.
mindmeld
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09-04-2016 , 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by MakeBelieve
mindmeld
Yeah I mean High Stakes ego wars being dragged onto public forums, horse stories, dream machines and random hating on ppl for the way they look, possibilities are endless.

Last edited by SootedPowa; 09-04-2016 at 05:41 PM. Reason: also man hugs in the middle of the night
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09-04-2016 , 05:34 PM
lol I may be a tad biased, guys
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09-04-2016 , 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted by SootedPowa
Yeah I mean High Stakes ego wars being dragged onto public forums, horse stories, dream machines and random hating on ppl for the way they look, possibilities are endless.
that adele song doenst even need much..only a video edit..

Last edited by MakeBelieve; 09-04-2016 at 05:41 PM. Reason: lol...doug singing the lyrics ofcourse
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09-04-2016 , 05:37 PM
To make it right , Ben should allow Doug to pick any PLO coach in the world and pay for Dougs coaching for X amount of hours.
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09-04-2016 , 05:38 PM
Less disputing, more Polkernewsing please.

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09-04-2016 , 05:43 PM
After whole #savetom thing, I see to clearly what's coming...
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09-04-2016 , 05:54 PM
Doug whilst having the right side of this.. I think its important to appreciate that largely what you have experienced from Ben is a representation of many things he is dealing with internally. That is to say they have a lot less to do with you personally than it might appear on the surface. (comments like I hate people that look like you should make this pretty clear).

Yes the business side of things is regrettable but discussing some of the more private aspects of this relationship in such a toxic environment could and probably will have a very negative effect on Ben (and possibly you), in no way helping to alleviate his irrational/projected anger. Perhaps you dont owe him anything, but what looks like a hateful spiteful enemy to you, looks very much like a manifestation of many years of previous experiences to those on the outside. Some empathy/sensitivity towards those issues, business aside, perhaps.
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09-04-2016 , 05:55 PM
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09-04-2016 , 05:55 PM
Why wouldn't Doug play Ben, seems like a beta move from Doug regardless if Ben knows some of his moves lol, so what?!
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09-04-2016 , 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by ShowMeUrAce
That is the gayest thing ever I can't imagine why he did it
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09-04-2016 , 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by yukyuk
Doug whilst having the right side of this.. I think its important to appreciate that largely what you have experienced from Ben is a representation of many things he is dealing with internally. That is to say they have a lot less to do with you personally than it might appear on the surface. (comments like I hate people that look like you should make this pretty clear).

Yes the business side of things is regrettable but discussing some of the more private aspects of this relationship in such a toxic environment could and probably will have a very negative effect on Ben (and possibly you), in no way helping to alleviate his irrational/projected anger. Perhaps you dont owe him anything, but what looks like a hateful spiteful enemy to you, looks very much like a manifestation of many years of previous experiences to those on the outside. Some empathy/sensitivity towards those issues, business aside, perhaps.
This
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09-04-2016 , 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by bbfg
That is the gayest thing ever I can't imagine why he did it
Usually pictures that involve a guy riding a wiener are pretty gay
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09-04-2016 , 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted by SrslySirius
lol I may be a tad biased, guys
make NVG great again
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09-04-2016 , 06:07 PM
cancelling the plo coaching was obviously a clear scam, i mean, if the other guy doesnt give permission to share that dream machine, an elite plo player can give elite coaching regardless.
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09-04-2016 , 06:07 PM
Very nice 'shop, ShowMeUrAce.
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09-04-2016 , 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Glaze
A warning against getting scammed is one thing. Leveraging your friendship to block someone from making money because the guy said some mean things to you during a drunken night is another. Based on the details out I don't think Ben was intent on scamming, but the optics are definitely bad. I'd warn a friend from dealing with someone but I'm not going to dictate how to live their lives based off my own personal dealings.
Some people just think that way. I was playing a guy straight pool for a thousand a game, spotting him, and beating him. He said he'd play me two thousand a game even. I told my partner I wasn't going to play him because, before we started, he walked around the room and found the squeakiest chair he could, brought it by our table, and sat there rocking every time I was shooting. My friend gave me the time out signal we used when we needed to discuss something. We both went into the bathroom. He grabbed me by the front of the shirt, threw me up against the wall, and said, "Do you mind if I make some ***king money?" I saw the wisdom of his reasoning, we went back outside, and I played.
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