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Originally Posted by Genetikfreak
Dnegs just curious do you think you will settle down and have a family anytime soon? (you r pushing in terms of age to do this, sorta...) What is your outlook concerning that subject....
Simple answer is, I'm open to it. My intention is to have kids at some point, but I am in no rush and wouldn't unless I felt like the situation was exactly what I'm looking for. I don't "need" to have them, and would be absolutely content living the rest of my life without them, but it is something that I'm open to.
I'm a big believer that before someone can be a happy husband or happy father, they need to first get to a point where they could be totally happy single! I don't believe that a wife "makes you happy" or that kids "make you happy." Sure, they could add joy to your life, fulfillment, etc. but they cannot fill a void if one exists.
I'm as happy with my life as I've ever been. Truly living the dream life I wanted to create in my early 20's when I was grinding it out in the cash games and the tourneys. My goal back then was to work so hard in my 20's, that when I hit my 30's and beyond... I wouldn't have to.
I've accomplished that and more. I want to make a difference for people and I do my best to live that everyday. That doesn't always require a financial investment, although I'm fortunate enough to have that luxury and I don't take the responsibility lightly in terms of what I give and to whom.
One last thing: A few years ago, I don't remember when it was exactly, I remember "defending myself" in terms of my sexual orientation. Both my assistants are gay, and it dawned on me that it's not something I should ever even defend. It's insulting to them in a sense. I don't see anything wrong with being gay, so if people accused me of being gay, who really cares?
I suppose it would bring into question my integrity, as in, if I were lying about being straight, then my word isn't worth anything. My integrity is extremely important to me. Throughout my career its been my main focus both at and away from the table. I have nothing to hide and am more than willing to answer literally any question someone has for me. I have no skeletons in my closest and have always been an open book, sharing my thoughts and my private life with the world. I'm comfortable with that. Completely.
I sleep like a baby. 8 hours a night, no regrets, no anxiety, no worries. For 20 years in this industry I've dealt with, for lack of a better term, "haters" and I'm fully aware that when you are as outspoken and as open as I am, that you invite that. Again, I'm totally ok with that and I accept that responsibly wholeheartedly.
My favorite quote is, "In order to avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing... and be nothing." That's not how I live my life and I never will. I'll throw myself into the fire, the cesspool of haters, and if I make a difference for even one of them in terms of inspiring them to see their life, and their options a different way, I think it's worth it.
Helps to have thick skin, and mine is plenty thick. (That's what she said)